explaining god to a 3 year old

It is just as plausible that he didn't exist at all and the whole thing is made up. A Christian just takes his divinity on faith too.

depends if this is true or not
Most remarkably, an inscription has been etched into the side which reads, "James, son of Joseph, brother of Jesus" in the Aramaic script of the time. Careful studies, including scrutiny under a scanning electron microscope show the inscription to be genuine. The patina, or oxidized surface equally covers both box and the interior of the etched letters. The recognized expert on such matters, Dr. Andre Lemaire, concludes: "I am pleased to report that in my judgment it is genuinely ancient and not a fake."

http://www.geocities.com/ossuary_ark/
 

Following the source of the image in that article, led me quickly to the Biblical Archeology Review journal, who have recently published a new article regarding the relic described on that geocities hosted website. The person who found it, is currently being prosecuted by the Israel authorities for possibly faking it.

Whether the relic is real or not proves very little to me as I am entirely unsure about whether Jesus existed as a man (and believe it has very little to do with whether the proverbial "God" exists) however, I thought it best to post the link so as to keep the information trail accurate.

http://www.bib-arch.org/debates/antiquities-trial-01.asp
 
Yes Ben but my wife would like him to have a belief where as goldilocks is a lie.

Even I can't explain why god exists and spiderman doesn't spiderman is much more real than god to my son.

You may like him to have a belief but can't make him have one. Explaining the Hebrew god should be fairly straightforward - just make sure you keep it simple I.e on a three year olde level.

At least you don't have to explain one of the many forms of Paganism. Most adults struggle understanding that.
 
Following the source of the image in that article, led me quickly to the Biblical Archeology Review journal, who have recently published a new article regarding the relic described on that geocities hosted website. The person who found it, is currently being prosecuted by the Israel authorities for possibly faking it.

Whether the relic is real or not proves very little to me as I am entirely unsure about whether Jesus existed as a man (and believe it has very little to do with whether the proverbial "God" exists) however, I thought it best to post the link so as to keep the information trail accurate.

http://www.bib-arch.org/debates/antiquities-trial-01.asp

Good find. I would be surprised if he didn't exist and the more we advance are technology the more we find that the bible is a good historical source for information. Like the great flood, destruction of Sodom and gomera. As some one else said I see it as a exaggeration based on real events.
 
its probably best to explain it to him in a non matter of fact way.. like "some people like mummy and daddy think that someone made the world and we call him god"

telling him there is a god is either going to lead to a belief or non-belief.. rather than letting him figure it out in his own time.
 
At least you don't have to explain one of the many forms of Paganism. Most adults struggle understanding that.
I dunno, i find paganism fairly easy to understand and i'm technically not an adult.
Of course i do have a few pagan freinds to explain it.

Also, what is so important about someone believing in god?
It doesn't add any moral fibre to their being, just a bit of blindness to their beliefs.
 
I don't have children (and I don't know how yours would comprehend the following) but I'd probably explain something along the lines of "some people believe that there is an all-powerful being who created us and watches over us, many of the stories relating to him are in the Bible". Then if you choose to/he shows interest then you can read him some of the stories, personally I'd steer clear of the Old Testament at least initially unless he's got an interest in a vengeful God, fire and brimstone type stuff.

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I was mulling over the question asked by the OP while I was watching some particularly tedious adverts on TV.

I have no memory of anyone ever telling me specifically about god but I do remember at the age of 4 or 5 getting introduced gradually to the idea.

My parents, particularly my mother, were very keen that I went to Sunday School. I hated it and often just went for a bit of a walk instead. I think my parents just wanted a few hours peace on a Sunday morning. Incidentally things were different then and it was no big deal for me and my brother to walk a couple of streets to get to the house where the Sunday school was held. Sunday school consisted of a singing a few hymns, doing a few few prayers and a bit of structured activity like stories and colouring in

When I started school we had a class and school assemblies. It was law then (don't know about now) that schools had to have collective acts of (Christian) worship I believe.

Radio used to broadcast religious services, and on sundays TV had a god spot. Although I didn't listen to them, over the years I was exposed to them in passing.

My point is that exposed to the words to hymns and prayers, and unlucky enough to catch a few words of sermons, attending the odd wedding and christening --- then over a period of time I subconsciously, some might say insidiously, built up a notion of god at at that very early age.

Three years old is too young though. Needs to played down and kept VERY simple at that age.

NB: I became a life long atheist at the age of seven :) I just could not seriously take on board all the "fairy stories" the adults were trying to make me believe. Stubborn little monster that I was in those days.
 
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Yes Ben but my wife would like him to have a belief where as goldilocks is a lie.

Even I can't explain why god exists and spiderman doesn't spiderman is much more real than god to my son.

Given that both are introduced to us by works of fiction Goldilocks is no more of a lie than anything else.
 
Well at least my parents alway used to scare me with the police :D.

That's horrible of them, what songs did they use? "Roxanne" or "Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic"? They use any of Sting's solo work on you aswell? :D

I'm in the "not brain washing your child" section of the camp, if anyone's counting btw.
 
I haven't read this thread, as I can guess exactly how it has gone down. 95% of people shouting there is no God, a few people saying you can't prove that, your closed minded. Science getting involved, then the rebuttal of science can only predict what could happen etc etc, someone saying they're not religious but you can't prove it, so i'm all high and mighty because i'm sitting on the wall.
This has been done a million times before and will be done a million more time.

Sad.

In response to the OP, if you want him to believe, read him the bible and tell him its true. Whether you agree to this actually being conditioning, i suppose that depends on whether you believe it. Otherwise explain to him that some people believe this is the case, and no one will really know till they plop their cogs, and let him decide.
 
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I have no idea how to explain the difference between god and "there's no such thing as ghosts".

Erm... there's a good reason for that ;)


Teach him that there are a group of people called christians, and that this is what they believe. Not in any great detail, obviously, but the basics. They think god created everything, Jesus was his son etc.
 
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