Whose baby is it ?

Tell him, it'd be eating away at me inside if I knew something like that.

The man deserves to know, tell him you think something is up and have noticed her being very affectionate to a fair few people at work including disappearing with them for a few hours during the day.

How did you get hold of the email by the way?

I don't see how you can just "manage" to find emails like that... Surely people who cheat on their fiancés do at least a half assed job of trying to hide this?
 
Azagoth said:
Before you start meddling in someone else's business, have you ever stopped to consider that the guy already knows about her actions and is perfectly OK with it. Not everyone conforms to your stereotypical view of a monogamous relationship, perhaps he enjoys the fact that his girl is seeing other men. Who knows, she may even video it for them to watch together at a later date. I once dated a girl who was bi-sexual and had a girlfriend 'on the go' at the same time as seeing me. It didn't bother me in the slightest, perhaps this guy is the same.

Like I said above, it's got nowt at all to do with you or anyone else what someone does in their private life.
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In which case telling him wouldn't be a problem, the guy would probably be happy to know that someone was looking out for them enough to notice.

On the flip side of course, he might just say "yeah I know... fancy a ride yourself mate?" :cool:
 
nikebee said:
In which case telling him wouldn't be a problem, the guy would probably be happy to know that someone was looking out for them enough to notice.

On the flip side of course, he might just say "yeah I know... fancy a ride yourself mate?" :cool:
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would you really want to ride a ****?
 
i hate these threads. op asks: should i do option a or option 2, everyone says option a, op comes back a few days later saying i decided to do option 2. i think since joining these forums i have only seen a thread once where the op did as everyone said which was only recently and about leaving his girlfriend.
 
He has a right to know, and then he can make his mind up with what he wants to do... (DNA test etc...)

I would like to think if ever something like that happend to me there would be somone with the balls to let me know (Because lets face it, the chance of a gal that can do that aint going to come clean)

Also dont forget to let us know how it goes :)
 
Their relationship is doomed anyway. The baby will not change or fix anything. Eventually, he'll come home to find her blowing the postman or some such nightmare.

Thats the kind of lady this one is.

When that poor guy is in the middle of his divorce 1,3,5 years from now, he'll be wishing that a guardian angel had visited him to warn him off so he didn't have to ruin his life.

He absolutely must be told. You must do this anonymously.
 
gurusan said:
just post the emails to him anonymously
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This. He will be gutted at first, but in a year will probably be breathing major sighs of relief. Ok it's nothing to do with the OP in the strictest sense, but imagine being completely oblivious to the fact your bird was screwing multiple people at your home because you worked so far away, and almost everyone else knew the whole time. I'd want to know, and letting him know would be the decent thing to do. It would at least let him preserve some dignitiy and pride.
 
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mame said:
people she works with have managed to uncover and print a pile of e-mails proving that she was also having a full sexual relationship with a SECOND colleague at the same time
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sounds liKe there may be more to this story. possibly a grudge against the pregnant lady by her colleagues.

op i would not get involved - leave the dirty work to your girlfriend or her colleagues.
 
camels5 said:
This. keep out of other people business.
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If you seen a bloke in the street being kicked in the balls over and over, would you not say something? Or would it be there business? Same thing, the blokes missses is kicking him in the balls..

You dont need to know the person to do the right thing, try and put yourself in the mans shoes, wouldn't you like someone that didn't just "keep out of other people's business" to let you know that your partner is not only cheating, but she could be pulling the wool over your eyes and making you belive/bring up a child that could be one of 3 peoples, it's a pretty big deal.
 
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