What exactly appeals to you about being a soldier, what about the lifestyle appeals to you?
lets be honest, as a soldier you'll be involved in killing people, directly or supporting those who do. YOu'll probably get moved about, have little freedom little choice, clearly at a massively higher danger of dying in the job. Cleaning out toilets in the middle of a desert so your country can secure rights to oil fields and make money and you won't see a share of the profits and the people who employ you couldn't give a monkeys if you die, at all. Personally, I'm failing to see what draw's people to the lifestyle and job.
Can't really reply to that, because simply, if you can't understand what would appeal about the army, you'll never understand no matter how much I or who ever explains to you why we do what we do.
But a few brief points from me:
Yes, we go out killing/support people killing. But we're not going out to directly kill innocent people. We are fighting people in Afghanistan who are an oppressive force against the Afghan people. Not going to get into the details of the entire war because there is simply too much to go into.
The pay, although not that great, is good, because you don't have a huge ammount of out goings. Once I start in the army, I'll be taking quite a large pay cut, but the amount of money I have left at the end of the month will be hugely increased.
Yeah we travel a lot. And quite frankly, it's one of the best things I find. Get to travel all over the world, to do many many things(not just warfare/peace keeping) and I not only don't have to pay to go, I actually get paid to go.
I'll get mates who I'll be able to trust my life with. In my current job, I've got mates, but I wouldn't particularly trust them(not that I distrust them).
I'll get trained up to a high level in my chosen trade, in my case a Communication Systems Engineer, using top of the line technology. Eventually if all goes well I could be sent to university after several years of service. I won't have to pay a penny for this.
Dunno what else to go into really. Like I said in the opening of my post, I probably won't be able to convince you, but I thought I'd list some of the points that have attracted me. There are more, but I won't try and justify my choice to you any more than I already have.