Oooh a dating question!

uber soldat · 2 Mar 2009 at 13:55

tisonlyme said:
I know, to be honest this new thing has moved really quickly. He's asked me to meet his family etc and asked if it's ok that he refers to me as his girlfriend. Normally if something were to move this fast I'd be a bit scared off, but as corny as it sounds, this one just feels 'right'

Asked to meet family after just a few weeks? *Starts alarm bells*

tisonlyme · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:15

Alphane said:
Sounds like a desparado that found you weren't a pushover and legged it. And the chances of finding a guy that really wants a relationship rather than just to act out his favourite pron with you on a dating site are pretty slim love sorry.
Better luck next time I'd say

Hehe, did you actually read what you quoted? :confused:

Dinomania · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:16

Munky1080 said:
I don't mean to hijack the thread, but how long should you date a chick before you're able to consider her your girlfriend? I've been married (until 7 months ago) the last 4 1/2 years, so I'm sort of not used to this whole dating thing lol.

I've been seeing a lovely girl for about a month now...when should I ask if she'll be my gf?

My boyfriend just said it out right - we'd not been seeing each other long and he was musing aloud about what he should refer to me as when talking to friends or relatives who didn't yet know about me - I stopped dead in the street, pulled him back and said I was very happy to be called his girlfriend, if he'd have me

QBitOscillation · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:28

Tisonlyme you sound really desperate.

One minute you are getting in a flap about a text from a dating site bloke, nanoseconds later you are with another guy, meeting his parents, and thinking he is "the one"

Munky1080, you dont ASK her if you are her boyfriend, you TELL her!

Sometime women need taken control of, they wont admit it, but its true.

Macabre · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:34

sara said:
My boyfriend just said it out right - we'd not been seeing each other long and he was musing aloud about what he should refer to me as when talking to friends or relatives who didn't yet know about me - I stopped dead in the street, pulled him back and said I was very happy to be called his girlfriend, if he'd have me

Can I have you?

tisonlyme · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:40

QBitOscillation said:
Tisonlyme you sound really desperate.

One minute you are getting in a flap about a text from a dating site bloke, nanoseconds later you are with another guy, meeting his parents, and thinking he is "the one"

Er, are you serious?

Dinomania · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:43

Macabre said:
Can I have you?

Afraid I'm happily taken, pet

tisonlyme - just tread carefully love, ok? Sounds like it might be something very nice you're heading into, but be careful and don't go too fast or you might find yourself feeling trapped and guilty and unable to easily back out after you get to know him properly.

Kazz · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:44

QBitOscillation said:
Tisonlyme you sound really desperate.

One minute you are getting in a flap about a text from a dating site bloke, nanoseconds later you are with another guy, meeting his parents, and thinking he is "the one"

Munky1080, you dont ASK her if you are her boyfriend, you TELL her!

Sometime women need taken control of, they wont admit it, but its true.

*insert picard facepalm*

uber soldat · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:47

Kazz said:
*insert picard facepalm*

Oops wrong Picard pic

Gimpymoo · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:48

Send him a photo of the "Goods" - See if he replys?

ColdAsIce · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:51

Is this a different guy than the one you met on the internet then?

tisonlyme · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:53

Yah, this is a different one

uber soldat · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:54

So how many weeks have you known this dude?

ColdAsIce · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:56

tisonlyme said:
Yah, this is a different one

What happend with the internet guy, if you don't mind me asking?

tisonlyme · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:57

uber soldat said:
So how many weeks have you known this dude?

You sound like my brother

tisonlyme · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:59

ColdAsIce said:
What happend with the internet guy, if you don't mind me asking?

You mean the one the thread was based on? I tracked him down, kidnapped him and now keep him tied up in my loft as punishment for being an idiot

uber soldat · 2 Mar 2009 at 14:59

tisonlyme said:
You sound like my brother

lol just trying to work out the volume of alarm bells

If the answer is 3 weeks then volume could just be medium, 2 weeks or less= VERY loud

tisonlyme · 2 Mar 2009 at 15:01

uber soldat said:
lol just trying to work out the volume of alarm bells If the answer is 3 weeks then volume could just be medium, 2 weeks or less= VERY loud

Hehe, its been 2 and a half weeks now I think, so medium/loud

But I am being careful, and I haven't actually said yes to meeting his family yet, I want to leave that for a bit

QBitOscillation · 2 Mar 2009 at 15:14

I'd put money on him being gay and using you to "show" his friends and family that he isn't.

Dont mean to sound pessimistic, but I have seen it happen before.

Next you are going to tell me that you really connect, and he's sweet and sensitive!

Anewbe4u · 2 Mar 2009 at 15:14

Are you fit? If so, watch out for his dad.