What do you dislike about yourself?

HangTime said:
I dislike the fact that I over-analyze social situations rather than being more spontaneous. People that know me well regard me as fairly witty and affable, but I am very introverted and self-conscious in large groups of people, especially if I don't know them well. It goes right down to the level that I'll check out the kitchen at work before walking over there in case there are 'too many' people there.
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This. :(


Also the confidence with ladies thing.

Also most of the other things mentioned. :(
 
Can't motivate myself to move on with my life. Quite introverted, don't really enjoy big social occasions as much as I used to, outside my favourite 2 or 3 friends, other people just don't really keep me entertained like before.

EDIT - Apart from my girlfriend, obviously
 
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Being 31 and looking somewhere around 19-20. That and people commenting on it all the time and telling me this is 'a good thing' when it's forever been nothing but detrimental.
 
I can't commit to relationships even though i try hard to get the girl. Once ive slept with her, immediately after i no longer want her, and im on the lookout for a new Mrs. (longest relationship was 2 months)

Why is this?

lol. I feel harsh... but i can't help the way i feel......(this i do dislike as i want a relationship lol).
 
Shep_Cobain said:
I can't commit to relationships even though i try hard to get the girl. Once ive slept with her, immediately after i no longer want her, and im on the lookout for a new Mrs. (longest relationship was 2 months)

Why is this?

lol. I feel harsh... but i can't help the way i feel......(this i do dislike as i want a relationship lol).
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At a guess because you like the thrill of the chase and excitement of someone new.
 
tibbsey said:
This. :(


Also the confidence with ladies thing.

Also most of the other things mentioned. :(
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Don't worry, there is a cure - stop being lame. No, really.

After years of my friend telling me that I had to stop being lame, one day I just got up, looking in the mirror and went "... god damn, I'm SO LAME!"

Easier said than done, but it's the only thing you have to do.
 
Shep_Cobain said:
I can't commit to relationships even though i try hard to get the girl. Once ive slept with her, immediately after i no longer want her, and im on the lookout for a new Mrs. (longest relationship was 2 months)

Why is this?

lol. I feel harsh... but i can't help the way i feel......(this i do dislike as i want a relationship lol).
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Might be because you've been hurt in the past? Or you've witnessed someone else getting hurt in a long term relationship, therefore your brain tells you that proper relationships lead to heartache?

Kinda similar to people who say they don't believe in marriage. I've known quite a few guys who say that and when I ask them if their parents had divorced, the answer is almost always yes...
 
tisonlyme said:
Kinda similar to people who say they don't believe in marriage. I've known quite a few guys who say that and when I ask them if their parents had divorced, the answer is almost always yes...
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I never want to get married yet my parents are still together happily, it's just something I never want, the same as I never want kids of my own.

KaHn
 
KaHn said:
I never want to get married yet my parents are still together happily, it's just something I never want, the same as I never want kids of my own.

KaHn
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See I'm the same; I don't ever want to get married (lets just say I don't trust anyone enough not to leave me in ruins) but I'm happy to raise some sprogs when the time comes.
 
Nix said:
See I'm the same; I don't ever want to get married (lets just say I don't trust anyone enough not to leave me in ruins) but I'm happy to raise some sprogs when the time comes.
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Nope I live happily with my GF of 2 and a bit years just never wanted kids.

KaHn
 
Scared of rejection - i can never take that "first step" even though most of the time i know that it'll be alright.
 
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