Depressed

Bengaboy

Bengaboy

Bengaboy

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OCUK i am officially depressed.

I dont care if you go on about me being a faggot or whatever, but god, why do I feel so bad. Joining the navy in a week, and just want to be happy.

I would give up anything for a certain someone, but she doesnt want me.

I just want to be happy...
 
After a week in the navy you will be really Happy, no more depression for you,
You will be so happy when your leave comes up................unless you like it up there of course and then you will still be depressed.

Arms folded.
 
Seriously, I know OCUK forums, I know I will get ripped to shreds, I just really havnt felt this bad before...

I dont get it, why cant I just be happy...

Because I like this girl so much, I would actually let her be with the person she wants to be with , just so she can be happy. The lad she wants to be with treats her like dirt. But as long as shes happy, I can live with that.

Just want her to be with me.
 
Bengaboy said:
I dont have time on my side - I want to be with this girl, and am leaving for 6 months in 1 week - you lot dont understand how Im feeling.
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haha, you think you're the only one who has been denied by a girl? I could tell you a few stories about my life, but I'd rather not air my laundry as it were :p
 
talk to her, stop being soft and tell her how you feel, if you get a knockback, move on and put her out of your mind, at least you wont have to see her for 6 months :)
 
deko said:
talk to her, stop being soft and tell her how you feel, if you get a knockback, move on and put her out of your mind, at least you wont have to see her for 6 months :)
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But this is the thing mate, do I tell her how I feel, and make stuff complicated or just let it go?

Ive already told her before, and it just went **** up - I really want to let her know again - but Im thinking its best if I leave it? I dont know what to do...Im seriously stuck.

I had a serious relationship a while back and I have more feelings for this new girl, then I did my ex missus.

Let me telll you whats going on. She was crying at the club that her ex (who I know is still in love with... not that I have an inkling, she told me) text her saying that he loves her and wants to shag her and loves her then text her later saing that she he doesnt...

I then took her to another club, because she wanted to see some lad saying he was well fit (GOD im thinking what the hell???) but I took her anyways, just to try and make her happy. But she was getting with me at the club, saying this is a leaving present for the navy...

Really playing with my head. When we didnt find this lad, we got a taxi home, and she was asking me too tickle her back and was getting with me again - a "leaving present" ...

Can you see why Im a bit aggravated????

DONT KNOW WHAT TO FEEL, JUST FEEL BAD.
 
You sound like you've got it bad man! You don't want it hanging over your head for 6 months not knowing what might have been. Tell her everything and then if she's not interested then she's not worth getting upset over so just try to move on and enjoy the next 6 months and onward. If she does want to be with you then great you've got that to look forward to until you get back.

If it's meant to be, it will be.

But tbh, it sounds like she already knows your well into her but just doesn't want to be up front with you because she likes the attention you're giving her.
 
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benga, I might aswell spell this out for you now: but no-one is going to lift a damn finger to help you. People are happy in their own little reality, so another's misery to them is irrelevant. As hard as it is, you're going to have to learn to deal with it and pull yourself out of it.

Also, there's a difference to being depressed and simply gutted because some bird ditched ya. Depression lasts for years, the latter normally months.
 
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