Depressed

Look this is what you do.

Tell her before you go off to be with the village people you wanna hope on the good foot and do the bad thing.

Before hand you will wanna put a need ***** in your condom.

This is in the hope you'll get her pregas and that she is a catholic if you get my drift there.

So jobs a good'n pat on the back and all that. Six months later you two move into a council flat and you aint got long now before you become a daddy and you rope in the girl you love forever.;)
 
The problem with depression is that you instantly assume the worse in every scenario...I've been quite highly depressed over the years (Granted I'm wrong....but i know I've certainly been bad regardless)...However, you just need to look at the positives, and there are always positives, even if you think there aren't any :)

At the end of the day, it's you're choice if you want to dwell on thing's, or just tell the woman how you feel...Just don't let it rip you to shreds by thinking about 'what if' all the time.

On a side note....

Nanoman said:
Youll be fine in a weeks time dont worry! + there are loads more blokes in the Navy.
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What have you done to my sig man! :eek:
 
after next week you'll be soon so engrossed in what you're doing she'll be a distant memory. come back in 6 months and everything could have changed

MW
 
Cut the crush on the girl.

Get you're arse in gear for the Navy next week and be thankful that you have a career that will give you some of the best experiences in the world.

That is something to be happy and proud of. :)
 
your serving your country, should be proud
hate to say this, but if you did get with the girl, would have worked with you being in the navy?

sorry about the girl mate, kinda know how you feel, but welshy is right, Time is a healer
 
I promise you once your actually busy in the navy, you won't think of her half so often...

and I guess theres a chance you'll see her again in 6 months time and everything will be different... although from the sounds of your muddled description of events above I would RUN the other way.
 
Get her out for a drink this week and tell her exactly how you feel. Then it's up to her if she wants to do anything about it. If she doesn't want to know, then you'll be engrossed in Navy stuff for 6 months anyway, and you can move on, but on the other hand if she does, this is a perfect opportunity for her to prove it by waiting for you. As they say, 'absence makes the heart grow fonder' - you may find that in 6 months she will want to be with you more as she's realised her feelings for you were a lot more than she had thought.

Hope everything works out mate, and good luck for the Navy training!
 
Bengaboy said:
OCUK i am officially depressed.

I dont care if you go on about me being a faggot or whatever, but god, why do I feel so bad. Joining the navy in a week, and just want to be happy.

I would give up anything for a certain someone, but she doesnt want me.

I just want to be happy...
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I'm in the same position.

Look at it this way, atleast you know you've tired (if you have), shown how far you would go for this certain someone. Love is poison, if it ain't dealt with right, it'll mess you up, been there done that.

Hold your head up high and just be proud of how much you did and the memories you've got.

If she's left you because you've made a mistake, she shouldn't hold a grudge, as when you love someone you can forgive them, no matter what.

Good luck.
 
Bengaboy said:
but she doesnt want me.
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There's your answer

Bengaboy said:
Because I like this girl so much, I would actually let her be with the person she wants to be with , just so she can be happy. The lad she wants to be with treats her like dirt.
me.
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She wants him not you mate.

Bengaboy said:
I then took her to another club, because she wanted to see some lad saying he was well fit but I took her anyways, just to try and make her happy.
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What a mug.I can't beleive this one.

Seriously, let it go.She's a ***** tease.
It sounds she's not into you at all and the best thing you can do is let go.

She has a control over you mate and that's why she is getting you a present before you go into the navy so her lap dog will be back in 6 months time.
 
Bengaboy said:
I dont get it, why cant I just be happy...
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You don#t ge tit? Well let me explain briefly aided by the threads you have posted on this forum. Basically, you act like a complete and utter tool on a regular basis, that's why she doesn't like you, and that's why we feel no sympathy for you.
 
Bengaboy said:
OCUK i am officially depressed.

I dont care if you go on about me being a faggot or whatever, but god, why do I feel so bad. Joining the navy in a week, and just want to be happy.

I would give up anything for a certain someone, but she doesnt want me.

I just want to be happy...
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Mirtazapine, Diazepam and Olanzapine work pretty good.
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Bengaboy said:
OCUK i am officially depressed.

I dont care if you go on about me being a faggot or whatever, but god, why do I feel so bad. Joining the navy in a week, and just want to be happy.

I would give up anything for a certain someone, but she doesnt want me.

I just want to be happy...
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Earthquake? Quick to the internets!

Depression? Quick to the internets!

Go out with some mates, have some fun!
 
I just wanted to add, if you're officially depressed, i.e. a doctor has said you are and it's on your medical file, there is a good chance it could screw up the Navy application. Just need to kick this girl into touch, and get on with the good career you're going in to.
 
Depressed guys are almost always being ****ed around by women. They love screwing with guys heads. Even when you've been with one for seven years, it doesn't change.

Pfft, women :rolleyes: ;)
 
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