I don't seem to care?

That's rubbish. I've been on SSRIs in the past - one gave me headache, the other was fine. I was on them for a while - came off fine. No dependancy issues. Depends on the person and the drug itself - they are all remarkably different if you look into them.

I think it's the other way round when it comes to knowing the fact about them.

Sexual dysfunction is a very common side effect of all ssri's as is apathy and anhedonia. Overall only 51% of studies show a positive outcome of ssri's with an average 30% improvement over placebo, and many suffer awful withdrawl symptoms upon abrupt discontinuation, it's all reported in reputable journals. You may not have suffered side effects, but that is not typical of ssri use. Hell I know someone who takes 10mg of alprazolam a day and it barely has any effect on them, but they're an exception.

http://content.nejm.org/cgi/content/full/358/3/252

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15669895

http://apps.who.int/medicinedocs/en/d/Js4896e/9.html

http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/extract/331/7520/824

http://pb.rcpsych.org/cgi/content/full/29/6/219
 
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If they can't handle the work load, have a lacky of energy and ambition and generally have a 'can't be arsed' attitude then either a low dosage SSRI (say 20-50mg) or exercise can help to combat that. Not everyone wants to do exercise, so taking a harmless anti-depressant in small quantities is a viable alternative to boost someones outlook on their current situation.

Do you have any idea how widely prescribed low dosage anti-
depressants are for this sort of situation?

I was on an anti depressant and I would never go back on it, it gets you out of a mess but that was while I was in a job, dont know how you could live with yourself taking it while in education, what are you escaping, its not like you have mortgage or a family to bring up, its just another escape along with the student loads etc.

to say that a drug will solve is problems is very very dangerous.
 
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i'm in a similar position mate. Ironically i've been motivated pretty much all year got most of my coursework in (and got good marks should be coming out with about 70% for one of my entirely coursework based modules) however i cannot revise at all. everything and anything distracts me, i'm in my second year of doing maths and don't fancy failing now but i believe this may be too late as i may of failed my physics exam. I don't know what happens if you fail a module at uni so i'm just hoping to god i scrape by. The exercise advice is sound advice probably what kept me going through the year, however ive kind of dropped off it a bit since easter so probably not helping myself. Seriously having these breaks don't do students any good, i don't know of any that revised over easter. I'll stop my rant now and say good luck, i'm going for a solid day of revision tomorrow and i think you should too, go library or somewhere without a computer and work there.
 
All is not lost. Set an alarm for earlyish tomorrow morning, go to bed early, get up and print out all of the lecture notes you can then just spend the day in uni. You'll find that a day of solid revision can be more than enough to pass an exam.

lol, what uni did you go to?
 
@ OP:

I was in the same situation, I started my Computer Science course in Oct 2004, failed 3 out of 10 of my exams (badly, like, one was 5% which I walked out on after 10mins) due to simply not caring about anything and not going to any lectures or doing hardly any coursework, and I wasn't allowed to resit them in September 05 due to my failing by such a big margin, so I had to wait until the next year to take all my first year exams again. In the meantime I found a job at Atkins, and when exam time arrived I managed to scrape all my resits (got 41% average, needed 40%).

So in Oct 2006, there I was doing my 2nd year, and basically history repeated itself. I went to literally no lectures, did the bare minimum coursework to avoid being kicked out, and ended up failing the year again. Only this time I was able to resit exams on September 07, but ended up failing one of them again anyway, meaning, once again, I had to wait until the following year to take all my 2nd year exams again, which I eventually passed.

Fast forward to today, I'm now in my final year at uni (I enrolled on 2004, and its now 2009! :eek: ), just about to finish my "3 year" BEng degree in Computer Science, and I must say, this year has been by far the most fun out of my whole university experience (apart from the getting wasted with mates part :p), and with luck I'll be graduating with a 2:1, so I am very glad I made the decision to stick with it rather than drop out after 3 years of failing and resitting etc, it was a hard decision to make at the time; the sort of decision I see you are kinda trying to make now.

What you probably don't realise at your current stage is that you probably think that next year will just be the same crap again and you won't feel interested or motivated as you will have nothing to look forward to. But I can assure you that your final year is going to be a hell of a lot more interesting and sticking with it this year to get there will be the best decision you've ever made.

Here's what you should do:

  • Using your router, block all URLs with "forum", "news", "reddit", "blog", "facebook", "digg", etc, so you cannot access them. Ask your housemate/parents/etc to change the password on the router and not tell you what it is until after you've finished ;)
  • Disable/Uninstall any games you have on your drive, including crap like solitaire etc.

Get out a blank notepad, or exercise book etc, and just skim through your lecture handouts (if you were given them or if you can obtain them), and start highlighting parts you think are relevant, and have a casual read through past exam papers to get an idea of what level of detail you need to learn things, and start making a short list of important topics you need to know. If you find yourself "phasing out" when reading and your mind just wanders distracted (which happened for me ALL THE TIME), try moving to a different room or go have a cup of coffee. Afterwards, just go through trying to learn each of these topics, crossing them off from your list as you go. Or if you find that simply reading isn't enough, start trying to make a compact version of the notes in your notepad, and the knowledge will stick better. Or better yet: just try answering the past papers, and try going through tutorial questions and reading the solutions if they are available.

You'll find that once you start learning things and getting those "oooooohhh!" moments you'll be able to more easily get into the routine of revising. Without doubt though, the hardest hardest part is actually getting started.

As for coursework, I think the initial thought of the amount of work that needs to be done can be quite daunting and puts you off getting started. You think "ughh... I don't know where to begin... screw it, I'll worry about it later... right after I've checked GD on OcUK forums..." You just need to tell yourself you need to do it RIGHT NOW. Not in 2 minutes, not in 10 minutes, not in 30 mins, not tomorrow, but NOW, like this very second. You know you have it in you and it is just a question of motivation.

tl;dr
I was in nearly exactly the same position as you 2 years ago. I decided to stick with it and it was the best decision I ever made. Your final year will be a lot more fun than you anticipate so it is worth it. Stop wasting time, and just start doing your work. And I mean right now. This second. Not after you go fetch a snack, or check your emails or check reddit/forums etc. Do it NOW :p
 
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Taking "drugs" to combat a mental condition does not mean you are fail... Most people at some stage in there life will suffer from some sort of mental condition the worst thing you can do is ignore it, go to the doctors get advise and drugs if you need them..

I have a successful career and a well paid job and have no shame in admitting that I take Citalopram, Amitrityline and Diazepam on occasion, without them I would not be a functioning person... I suffer for no apparent reason (or so the head doctor tells me!) from bouts extreme anxiety, you can be as healthy as you like, take regular exercise and use a myriad of non-drug based techniques but in some cases without the drugs I would be buggered. Before I had the drugs in one of my worse "bouts" I didn't sleep for nearly six days and had rolling panic attacks.. which lead in the end to my passing out from exhaustion... whilst trying not to be a "namby pamby" and get on with it...

In relation to the OP:
Doing badly at uni is not the end of the world... didn't hold me back.. if its not for you then it isnt for you and nothing is going to change that... biggest mistake I made was trying to please others (i.e. parents) and going to uni and staying even though I knew the course wasnt for me.. and having a rubbish three years.. no point flogging a dead horse..
 
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I have a successful career and a well paid job and have no shame in admitting that I take Citalopram, Amitrityline and Diazepam on occasion, without them I would not be a functioning person... I suffer for no apparent reason (or so the head doctor tells me!) from bouts extreme anxiety, you can be as healthy as you like, take regular exercise and use a myriad of non-drug based techniques but in some cases without the drugs I would be buggered. Before I had the drugs in one of my worse "bouts" I didn't sleep for nearly six days and had rolling panic attacks.. which lead in the end to my passing out from exhaustion... whilst trying not to be a "namby pamby" and get on with it...

There's no shame in it.
 
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Here's what you should do:

  • Using your router, block all URLs with "forum", "news", "reddit", "blog", "facebook", "digg", etc, so you cannot access them. Ask your housemate/parents/etc to change the password on the router and not tell you what it is until after you've finished ;)
  • Disable/Uninstall any games you have on your drive, including crap like solitaire etc.

That's to stop them being distracted, well, I found my maths revision so absurdly dull that going to sleep became a distraction! Yes, in the middle of the day even :eek::(. Perhaps I should have turned my bed upside-down....
 
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Sound advice Heofz. ;)
The best thing you can do is just get away from your computer, its been the bane of my life ever since i got my first computer as I can seem to spend hours aimlessly using the internet yet only focus for about 30mins on studying! If you think about what you do on the computer 90% of it is utterly pointless.

What I do now is go into a completely different room in my house, or if you cannot do that get yourself down to the library. Its very rare for someone to actually enjoy studying even if its something you're interested in but unfortuntately its part of life, and like the guy said earlier.... do you really want to be a pathetic failure in life? I can guarantee that you dont so im sure 2 weeks out of your life is not going to kill you!

So my tips:


  • Get away from computers, pdas, iphones etc, basically anything that will distract you.

  • Just sit down and read your notes at first, you will be suprised how much you remember even if you barely attended or listened!

  • Depending on what type of questions you have, write a structure (flow chart or similar) for each topic on how to answer the question (you will probably have been given this at some point in the year)and fill in everything you need to answer that question.
  • PRACTICE QUESTIONS: this is the most important part of revision as the only way to get it firmly stuck in your head is to repeatedly attempt questions.
You may be a bit buggered for tmw's exam but you can definitely pass it, the others you have enough time to do quite well.

Hope this helps :)

BA
 
I failed my final year in uni because I lost the will to be there, just really couldn't be bothered with the whole education thing after that long and had a few things happen in my life. It was a bad time to feel that way admittedly but never the less, a few years later and I've got a decent enough job, nice car and looking to buy a house. Uni isn't everything.

What job are you doing now?
 
Thanks everyone!
I ended up going to the library and done a bit of revision, they were only open for 4 hours on a sunday :/
So i got back home chilled, had dinner (pizza gogo) started revising again at 11pm all the way to 8am, I've actually been up since 8am SUNDAY! with 1 hour power nap in there somewhere.
Anyway, thanks again people, really help me get my ass into gear. I might go to bed now, night!
 
Keep it up! It may seem like a hassle now, but you'll be thanking yourself in the long run if you can get through and have something to show for yourself.
 
Thanks everyone!
I ended up going to the library and done a bit of revision, they were only open for 4 hours on a sunday :/
So i got back home chilled, had dinner (pizza gogo) started revising again at 11pm all the way to 8am, I've actually been up since 8am SUNDAY! with 1 hour power nap in there somewhere.
Anyway, thanks again people, really help me get my ass into gear. I might go to bed now, night!

Good.

Read Heofz post as it's really good advice and very recognizable in my experience even though I won't be going to uni until sept, I experienced exactly the same as him in secondary school ( well except failing a year then :p).

The hardest thing is usually getting started.
 
Well done. I kick myself regularly when I think back at my A levels and getting a D in Physics, purely for not revising when it counted.

Saying that, I have a 3 hour finance exam in 10 days and haven't revised that much for it. But finance is finance :p
 
Been there, done that. :D

Failed my first year twice.
I thought that Uni would be as easy, and spoon fed to me like school was.
I thought that even if I didn't do any revision for exams, that I'd just scrape through.
I think that I was pushed into Uni by my school primarily, but also by my mum, and I ended up going to a university that was much higher than the level that I wanted to work at.
Didn't do enough work at the thigns i wasn't good at because I didn't enjoy them, so didn't want to do it.

So I now have about 15 grand of student loans to pay back, no degree, and a lack of memory for two years. I did however have an awesome time, and many many awesome people.

Qutie happily now in a good job, which at the moment doesnt require me to have a degree. Im getting experience, and loving what Im doing.

At the time I thought it was a massive problem not having a degree, but, at the moment, it seems to have not impaired me or my prospects. I might find that later in life, but I know I don't want to go back to learning in a Uni environment.
 
Well done. I kick myself regularly when I think back at my A levels and getting a D in Physics, purely for not revising when it counted.

Saying that, I have a 3 hour finance exam in 10 days and haven't revised that much for it. But finance is finance :p

If it's really important you will, on my final exams in secondary school I also should have started learning way sooner but I did it in the end, the night before the exam at 3 am :eek: ( for chemistry). Still was enough to pass with quite a big bit of headroom left. Was lucky too as I was knackered, I learned on all night, slept for 3 hours, and then continued to learn. Very risky due to not being rested hence I'd do it much earlier now but if people truly think something is important they will get to it somehow. My advice though is to do it a bit earlier :p.
 
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You failed your exams first time around and now can’t get motivated for your re-sits? My advice is continue to browse the forums, keeping the trolley’s in check and making sure the shelves are well stacked in Tesco is important… assuming of course you could actually get a job at Tesco when competing against people for jobs who haven't failed at life.
 
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Without doubt though, the hardest hardest part is actually getting started.
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Really good post there and I think most who have been in some sort of higher education can relate to that.

The statement I quoted is for absolute, honest, undeniable truth. Its just getting the motivation to get going, once I had started I used to be fine and really get stuck in...just getting there was neigh on impossible!
 
You failed your exams first time around and now can’t get motivated for your re-sits? My advice is continue to browse the forums, keeping the trolley’s in check and making sure the shelves are well stacked in Tesco is important… assuming of course you could actually get a job at Tesco when competing against people for jobs who haven't failed at life.

+ 1 This is some reality for you. ^^ if this annoys you in the slightest i suggest you use it as a kick up the bum and sort yourself out.
 
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