birthdays......dont like them

zootfloot said:
Why is having 3 kids at the age of 26 so shocking to some?
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Maybe because they were brought up with parents who had them into their 30s, and they feel that time is right for them too and that 20s are for developing yourself. I know my mother was nigh on turning 30 when she had me so that's what is norm to me.
 
actually i think having kid young is quite good if you can support them.


as im bit of a big kidd myself i get on really well if my kids and i dont find myself saying no to most things they want to do as i can see it from their point of view more than if i was a lot older.


also another plus side is when my first one is 18 i will only be in my mid to late thirties so hopefully i will be able to go out with him now and again.
 
Electroshadow said:
also another plus side is when my first one is 18 i will only be in my mid to late thirties so hopefully i will be able to go out with him now and again.
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For your first borns sake - I hope he says no.

Edit: I also think you used to be known as Azab.
 
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I'm not fussed about birthdays really. My wife, though, is and wants to arrange a party for my 40th. Being the humbug I am, I don't want a party..!
 
I turned 25 today, and I have a list as long as my arm of stuff I've done with my life, and a similar list of things to do. **** 'em all, just enjoy your life, do whatever makes you happy without hurting anyone else, that's what you should be aiming to do. :)
 
As for feeling 20 but being older .............. were are all pretty much the same; I will be 60 in the not too distant future and I feel as though I'm still a young man. The thing is, it is when the body starts to tell you that you can't do 'that' anymore .... or you can, but you will regret it later. ('that' being almost anything physical that the brain says you can do)

Kids and the snip: I fathered two boys (planned) when I was 23 and 25 and had the snip aged 25 in 1975 as my wife was on the pill and forecasts were not good for long term usage at the time. It was good being able to go and play soccer/cricket etc with ones children, something that many mid 40 year olds are incapable of.

Enjoy your life now, you never know when you might not have it.

Good luck and best wishes.
 
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