Any guys not allowed female friends?

PiKe

PiKe

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Just wondering how common it is for girlfriends to not like you seeing other females? I've asked if it's down to a trust issue but the reply was "No, I trust you but I don't trust her", can anyone decipher this into something a bloke would say because it doesn't make sense to me.
 
PiKe said:
Just wondering how common it is for girlfriends to not like you seeing other females? I've asked if it's down to a trust issue but the reply was "No, I trust you but I don't trust her", can anyone decipher this into something a bloke would say because it doesn't make sense to me.
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Its a comment from a woman and you expect it to make sense? :p
 
PiKe said:
Just wondering how common it is for girlfriends to not like you seeing other females? I've asked if it's down to a trust issue but the reply was "No, I trust you but I don't trust her", can anyone decipher this into something a bloke would say because it doesn't make sense to me.
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lol she obviously does not trust you, man up and tell her how its going to be TBH :D
 
No because we'll think you're gay. :p

There's also that 'friend zone' issue. Want to bang that chick? Don't be friends with her!
 
Happens to me all the time because im in the modeling industry..

The girls who say there are usally the insecure ones, just shut them up and tell them to stop worrying
 
Simplified male equivalent:

Every guy knows that you aren't friends with girls because they are fun to be around and you like them - guys do that way better. So the only reason is because you want to tap it.

Hence, you trust your girlfriend, but you know any guy friend she has, deep down wants to hit it, so you don't trust them.

This does of course, rely on a huge amount of generalisation and general untrustworthiness :p

And as said above, yes it's generally insecurity rather than trust issues.
 
I have female friends, but then they're friends with my partner as well as me so it doesn't really matter. *shrug*
 
Would you like it if your girlfriend went out drinking with a load of hot, good looking lads with big penises?

(hypothetical question) :p
 
Rich_L said:
Simplified:

Every guy knows that you aren't friends with girls because they are fun to be around and you like them - guys do that way better. So the only reason is because you want to tap it.

Hence, you trust your girlfriend, but you know any guy friend she has, deep down wants to hit it.
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This is basically true. There is no such thing as a 100% platonic relationship.
 
i like it when they say i trust you but i dont trust them.. kinda funny tbh since if she trusts you she should trust that if she was to make a move on you. you would make the right choice and just say no.. or yes :D
 
Girls should not deny their boyfriends girl mates. I mean, fair enough if one of the mates is known to put it about a bit, I'd be cautious, but I wouldn't say anything. My bf has a group of girl-friends he's known since school, they all text him regularly, doesn't bother me at all.

I'm still friends with a couple of ex's of mine, so I couldn't complain even if I wanted to! :p
 
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