Any guys not allowed female friends?

I think distinction there is good friend - chicks you socialise with now and then are fine and dandy, but if you're pouring your heart out to some chick and are 'really really close' then you totally want to hit it, even subconsciously :p
 
Lysander said:
Absolutely not. At your base level you would gladly have sex with each one of your good female friends. Whether you admit this to yourself is a subconscious decision only you can allow yourself.
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You've been watching When Harry Met Sally haven't you ?
 
Rich_L said:
I think distinction there is good friend - chicks you socialise with now and then are fine and dandy, but if you're pouring your heart out to some chick and are 'really really close' then you totally want to hit it, even subconsciously :p
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You're just a horny git, that's your problem. :p
 
Nope never had that issue - if I did, I can assure you I wouldn't put up with it. I won't be dictated with whom I'm allowed and not allowed to be friends with.
 
Burnsy2023 said:
What a load of BS.
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You are programmed to want sex with other women, it's not something you have control over. When you have a 'friendly' meeting with a girl, what you are doing is making a conscious decision to stave off your own innate sexual desires and replacing them with a mythical, more complex 'platonic' masque. In other words, you are giving yourself a reason to meet them which isn't sexual when deep down, the reason you're meeting them is entirely sexual. This is buried in your genes, there's nothing you can do about it.

Most 'friendships' are no more than testing grounds for sexual contact: some which succeed, some which fail, and some which are never realised. But it's sex that ties everything together.
 
Surely this works both ways then, women are programmed to reproduce are they not?
 
Lysander said:
You are programmed to want sex with other women, it's not something you have control over. When you have a 'friendly' meeting with a girl, what you are doing is making a conscious decision to stave off your own innate sexual desires and replacing them with a mythical, more complex 'platonic' masque. In other words, you are giving yourself a reason to meet them which isn't sexual when deep down, the reason you're meeting them is entirely sexual. This is buried in your genes, there's nothing you can do about it.

Most 'friendships' are no more than testing grounds for sexual contact: some which succeed, some which fail, and some which are never realised. But it's sex that ties everything together.
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If this theory was correct then surely there would be no gayers? :D
 
Lysander said:
This is basically true. There is no such thing as a 100% platonic relationship.
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If you mean in a bi-lateral way then maybe and hard to disprove/prove either way - you cannot be categoric at all and in no certain terms prove it. If you mean that any female friend I've got I've had more than platonic feelings for then I'm afraid that's completely false.
 
My gf is a bit like that. However I am a bit of a flirt, most if not all my female friends are pretty hot, and if I was not in a relationship I would probabally bang.

My gf is a trainee nurse and she comes home some nights and go on about all these new doctors she have met who have been really nice towards her. Like someone said, its not the women you need to look out for, its the men they are hanging about!
 
Lysander said:
You are programmed to want sex with other women, it's not something you have control over. When you have a 'friendly' meeting with a girl, what you are doing is making a conscious decision to stave off your own innate sexual desires and replacing them with a mythical, more complex 'platonic' masque. In other words, you are giving yourself a reason to meet them which isn't sexual when deep down, the reason you're meeting them is entirely sexual. This is buried in your genes, there's nothing you can do about it.

Most 'friendships' are no more than testing grounds for sexual contact: some which succeed, some which fail, and some which are never realised. But it's sex that ties everything together.
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You are wrong, you are assuming everyone is the same.
You don't know me or anyone else here, some of us do have control and don't want to bonk everything in sight.

Either you're trolling or have a bad (and by bad I mean like a retarded pidgeon) understanding of the human psyche.

There are so many variations the human mind can form in, weirdm wonderful and damned horrifing and you're telling the entire forum that we are all the same when it comes to males and females.
 
uber soldat said:
If this theory was correct then surely there would be no gayers? :D
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For gays and lesbians, the situation's the same though just linked to sex alone without the reproduction. Remember that gay couples do adopt kids too. Homosexuality is just a natural 'mutation' of sexual and experimental tastes.
 
Lysander said:
You are programmed to want sex with other women, it's not something you have control over. When you have a 'friendly' meeting with a girl, what you are doing is making a conscious decision to stave off your own innate sexual desires and replacing them with a mythical, more complex 'platonic' masque. In other words, you are giving yourself a reason to meet them which isn't sexual when deep down, the reason you're meeting them is entirely sexual. This is buried in your genes, there's nothing you can do about it.

Most 'friendships' are no more than testing grounds for sexual contact: some which succeed, some which fail, and some which are never realised. But it's sex that ties everything together.
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Got any backup for this theory? A source perhaps? Maybe you got it from a Christmas cracker?
 
ChrisJSY said:
You are wrong, you are assuming everyone is the same.
You don't know me or anyone else here, some of us do have control and don't want to bonk everything in sight.

Either you're trolling or have a bad (and by bad I mean like a retarded pidgeon) understanding of the human psyche.

There are so many variations the human mind can form in, weirdm wonderful and damned horrifing and you're telling the entire forum that we are all the same when it comes to males and females.
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Yes, you are. And everyone is the same on a biological and genetic level.
 
This kind of sitaution bugs the hell out of me.
I'm not a jealous person at all, would trust my other half implicitly if/when she goes out with male friends. She pretty much is the same with me.
As has been said, if she trusts you but not her, it still doesn't mean you're gonna hit it!
I'm great friends with a girl at work where just about every other bloke would dream of bedding her. We've spent drunken nights on my sofa chatting about how she likes it etc. and we chat and laugh. She is a stunning looking woman with a fantastic figure....but that's as far as it goes. We don't fancy each other at all, so that complication is out the way and we can get on as good friends.
It can and does happen people.
If your gf tries to dictate which females you can be friends with, i'd tell her to sling her hook, seriously. Its not on, period!

Here endeth the sermon :D
 
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