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You can't state an age - it should be relative to your age. If you're 35 sleeping with a 35 year old is not sleeping with an older woman. 

Some older women are really hot!
35-40 can be a sweet spot.
You can't state an age - it should be relative to your age. If you're 35 sleeping with a 35 year old is not sleeping with an older woman.![]()
Personally? No thanks. I think 10yrs is about my max age difference.What about you're 35, they're 60?![]()
I think it's because they just seem naturally self-confident due to their life experience, note that by self-confident I don't mean arrogant, quite the opposite, just that they are very sure of themselves and don't put on false pretences, coming across naturally. Whereas many girls/young women seem to have a chip on their shoulders, have their guard up a bit, not quite so approachable.
Eva Longoria Parker is hot for 34!
Eva Longoria Parker is hot for 34!
34 isn't old!!!
Know what you mean, I was sleeping with a 35-37ish woman when I was 19.
Yes it is
Confidence if you ask me.
Younger women are too busy worrying about what this bit of flab looks like, or how big their bum looks, and waste too much time worrying about it. As women get older (I know i've found this myself) you become more accepting of how you are, and accept that you arent perfect, and if you want do something to change that then you can, but you love yourself how you are, and I think that shows on that outside as well.
I don't think there is a specific appeal to older women, there's an appeal to confident, attractive and sexy women but that doesn't define an age range or even an age relative to yours. Some women always have it, some acquire or lose it with age but for me there's no universal appeal to a woman just because she is older.
thats the ****. was she fit?
For the sake of argument let's pick Sandra Bullock, she's knocking on 40 but she's still quite appealing, so she might not be everyones cup of tea and she's 15 years my senior but still
So what's the appeal?