Awh hell man, sorry to hear it, first relationship did you say?
You'll learn a lot of lessons and take heed from them next time around.
We all do, such is life, although some people never learn, don't be on of them
But you're completely in the wrong to smear millions of people just because they're the same sex as her (i.e. the thread title). That's completely unfair.
Agreed, however if you were to witness what I have in my life and all my friends/colleagues and aquaintances, you'd see how each and every single one of them, except 1 now that I think of it has had a women cheat on them, or has friends of their own that have. Totally understand this is from my perspective, not everyone else. Myself, my friends, my own goram family... it never ends.
I have not heard one story from a female of this happening to them in the 25 years I have been alive and it's worrying. No tthat I want it to happen but, I never hear it.
Not in real life, not on the internet via forums or video sites, nothing.
Granted most of the online places we visit inc. OCUK are male dominant, I don't actively look out for stories like these, you come across them like we all did here.
Edit: I honestly believe, just like
some men and women are different in a stereotypical way, that women are more prone to look for something else before leaving the other, they like options, multiple ones, so they can jump to whichever suits them best and don't think of the person they are doing it to. Heck, you'll even find it here from some resident females, yes they divulge that much info to us. Tis all a bit heartless really.