GIRLS SUCK

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you described her as sort of dull doesnt really stimulate you and then praised her kindness. bit far from kind to treat you like this, kind people split up from people if seek other things. shes boring, a coward and a dirty cheat, good riddance. swig that bottle for me just dont get married to it, its only a temporary measure. get out there and live your life hard this really could be the making of you. oh yeah dont forget them dancing shoes :)
 
sorry to hear it mate, old friend of mine just got screwed over too, moved miles away to be with their other half and it went very badly, now she's picking up the peices by having some "fun" and she's all the happier for it, so go out, be stupid, you'll never forget her, but you'll never forgive her, so you won't be pining for her forever, that's the only positive to come from this

oh, and join in on the internet dating thread now >.<
good luck buddy, yours will come in time
 
ChrisJSY said:
I have not heard one story from a female of this happening to them in the 25 years I have been alive and it's worrying.
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Well I can fix that for you :) My ex boyfriend was seeing someone for 3 months before admitting it and ending things with me. He even took her on holiday while we were together (he told me he was away with work). I cannot tell you how sick I felt after hearing it and I can guarantee you that I have never and will never cheat on anyone, it's an awful, cowardly thing to do.

Surprisingly, he's not with that girl anymore!

To the OP, I'm so sorry about what's happened to you, and I know it doesn't feel like it right now, but you will get over it. And when you do, you'll wonder why you were with her in the first place.
 
Rought one buddy, but it will get better.

Get out, be with your mates, have fun but be careful to not treat women you may be with in the immediate future like trash just becasue you are bitter just now. Word gets round easy and you dont want to be made the bad one in this.

Time is a great healer and you have the benefit of youth on your side.
 
Cheer up OP,


When I separated with my ex it seemed the end of the world, but then I got some from plenty of women and met a top new one. Result.

As said, cheating is a cowardly thing to do, especially using your current partner as a buffer if things go wrong.

Anyway my new gf said that this was her favourite song and to listen to the message. The other relationships are just there for you to learn how to make the new relationship the best ever. Not quite my cup of tea, but she had a point.
 
some lyrics from Dan Le Sac vs Scroobius Pip - Look For The Woman

See we got together so young,
before our real lives had begun,
but flowers don't grow up as one,
each finds its own way to the sun,
and that's exactly what we've done.
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Pretty much described my previous relationship tbh. Picked up, moved on about 6 years later i'm with someone else, married and happy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yqnKbdqjh2I
 
OP, I sympathise with you and best of luck to getting over it.

ChrisJSY said:
I have not heard one story from a female of this happening to them in the 25 years I have been alive and it's worrying. No tthat I want it to happen but, I never hear it.
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... really? I'm very surprised given that statistics show men cheat proportionally as often or more often than females.
I was with a guy for 6 years (16-22) and even got married. Unfortunately he was cheating on me since before the wedding and didn't have the balls to tell me.
 
riddler said:
Turns out she also gave him a h****** on one of their dates. So I just ****ing run, ran like the wind stayed at a mates heart to heart all night. Great guy.
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She gave him a handbag :eek:

I'm not sorry for you mate she was a tramp and a coward better off without tbh you've had a lucky escape. Imagine if you'd had a kid or got married.
 
meh, i haven't read most of the thread, but i do feel for you on this one - as it doesn't even seem like you were going through a bad time and she didn't even bother to try to talk anything through with you if she was unhappy - it's a bit pathetic on her part really, not to even consider your feelings at all :/ but take something from it, you know she's a liar and a cheat and its better to know than not.

B@
 
Find the guy and knock him the **** out.

Really sorry to hear about that mate, I would say that at least she talked to you about it, doesn't excuse what she did and she deserved far worse than she got, but at least she didn't lie aboto you.
 
stinamoo said:
OP, I sympathise with you and best of luck to getting over it.



... really? I'm very surprised given that statistics show men cheat proportionally as often or more often than females.
I was with a guy for 6 years (16-22) and even got married. Unfortunately he was cheating on me since before the wedding and didn't have the balls to tell me.
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non of my wifes male friends are cheating as far as we know , yet 2 of her female friends have openly admitted on girly nights out that they have been having afairs for some time now.

the first one we found out about made my wife a bit disgusted , she doesnt really seem all bothered by the revelation that another of her friends is cheating , pretty worrying really.

its almost as if its becoming acceptable for women to cheat and not even try to hide it.

these are couples in there thirties btw.

im just glad my wife isnt the type to cheat but she doesnt really have much of a sex drive since out second child was born either :(
 
Its the age mate, girls at that age SUCK. Just like you said.
You have to learn it the hard way and so many people do. You'll be better off for having learnt this lesson.
I had to learn it three times before it properly stuck :D
You aren't alone mate, girls moving from teen to 20-s are absolute ******.

I'm sorry you had to go through it after 6 years, it's gonna sting forever... just ignore her and think about all the opportunities now open to you ;)

One small tip from personal experience though...
UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES SHOULD YOU TRY TO MAKE HER JEALOUS. It's tempting, sure. But it wont work and she'll only come out the victim leaving you looking like a twit. Trust me, been there.
 
A lot of girls do suck, hard - but many women don't.

Harsh bint - it's not fair to stick with someone when actively looking elsewhere - nevermind actually uh, acting on other fancies.

Best rid. Have some fun :)
 
So they sometimes they suck but you’re young and it isn’t the end of the world. There are plenty more fish in the sea and you will find a better one.
 
stinamoo said:
... really? I'm very surprised given that statistics show men cheat proportionally as often or more often than females.
I was with a guy for 6 years (16-22) and even got married. Unfortunately he was cheating on me since before the wedding and didn't have the balls to tell me.
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If the pic in your sig is you, he's a very silly boy :eek:
 
Sorry to hear that, OP. Nothing in the world hurts more than a bad breakup, even though that shouldn't be the way.

Not that you would like to hear otherwise, but when you wrote:

Now personality wise she was never the biggest talker or the funniest person I've met but she's kind....so damn ****ing kind.
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It reminds me of somebody that I used to date. We did have a good time, but I think you need more than just a mutual caring arrangement. You should be looking to date the biggest talker and the funniest girl - there needs to be more than kindness.

The way you wrote that makes me think that there is probably somebody out there you are far better suited to. Chin up, sonny Jim.
 
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