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they are evil things !!!
I was in a relationship for 3 years we went through bad times and argued but we were happy and had a lot of good times! then about 5 months ago she just said not happy and that and wanted some time apart.. next thing she was with another bloke in like 2 weeks the whore!!! I could have went crazy but chilled out a bit I seen her the other week out on town and came running up to me saying im so sorry love u so much blah blah blah and i miss u.... and wouldnt stop crying all night! then she said we would talk and we talked and then she said yer i do miss you and stuff but cant get back with u whats that all about ?!? messing with my head!! they all the same !!! !!
 
R0Z4G said:
they are evil things !!!
I was in a relationship for 3 years we went through bad times and argued but we were happy and had a lot of good times! then about 5 months ago she just said not happy and that and wanted some time apart.. next thing she was with another bloke in like 2 weeks the whore!!! I could have went crazy but chilled out a bit I seen her the other week out on town and came running up to me saying im so sorry love u so much blah blah blah and i miss u.... and wouldnt stop crying all night! then she said we would talk and we talked and then she said yer i do miss you and stuff but cant get back with u whats that all about ?!? messing with my head!! they all the same !!! !!
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Yep, we are all evil and we are all the same :rolleyes:

I'm sorry your relationship didn't work out, but if you knew a guy who'd ended his relationship with his gf, and was with another girl 2 weeks later, would you call him a whore?
 
tisonlyme said:
Yep, we are all evil and we are all the same :rolleyes:

I'm sorry your relationship didn't work out, but if you knew a guy who'd ended his relationship with his gf, and was with another girl 2 weeks later, would you call him a whore?
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I wouldn't and neither would many people I know. Personally, I'd be questioning his ethics just like I would the girl in question. Any label I'd attribute to said individual is not one I can really repeat here but it certainly does not involve any praise. Such girls and boys however, seem to be made for eachother. I just wish they'd stop spilling over into my life as a consequence.
 
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I wouldn't and neither would many people I know. Personally, I'd be questioning his ethics just like I would the girl in question. Any label I'd attribute to said individual is not one I can really repeat here but it certainly does not involve any praise. Such girls and boys however, seem to be made for eachother. I just wish they'd stop spilling over into my life as a consequence.
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Two weeks is quite a long time, providing your partner hasn't just died or something similar.
 
Damn i feel for you. I'm in the middle of a break up and not sure which side of the fence to go(leave or stay, not homo ;)) I found out she'd been texting some other lad from work. She originally claimed it was a female friend and swore blind to my face that was it. A few days later she admitted it was a lad and she'd been texting him for a month and half. Now she claims it was all innocent and they was just friends but i say if you're just friends why hide it and deny it to my face? Why make me look the mug? The funny thing is if i was to text any females make knackers would have been sliced 'n' diced and i would have been made to eat them!

The hardest thing for me is that i have a 19 month old daughter and i really really don't want to leave her, if it wasn't for her i would have been off a long time ago.

I have had a similar experiance in the past also and i think because i've been through it before i've grown wiser and not to act like a loon over it. I will move on with my life no matter what happens.
 
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Two weeks is quite a long time, providing your partner hasn't just died or something similar.
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Two weeks to get over any relationship is completely outlandish. It's like a doctor signing you off only for one day if you had accute pneumonia.

To jump ship so quick is indicative of either vindictive planning or desperation. Either way, my alarm bells would be ringing. The former shows a questionable character whereby the latter is one of damage.

If you care about someone by and large you do not want to hurt them. In a relationship - unless I thought there was some crucial lesson which she had to learn or a mistake to be made - I would generally take everything they could throw at me on the chin. Cheating on someone is a complete disregard for the vulnerability they've shown you; it's a corruption of innocence. The world is crap enough without people breaking hearts on a whim. There's a multiplier effect at play here. Someone naive at 16 gets their heart broken by some idiot and continues to hurt others in the future as they can't ever trust the same way or their perspective is warped into such a way they hurt people not through malice or spite but through an aquired selfish-disregard of their own. The buck has to stop somewhere.

If people would only bloody stop and think about the consequences of their actions on other people the majority of hurt really could be avoided.

It always comes down to the same damn point though: people, despite all their flattery and pomp are very selfish creatures. Too many people (see the majority) do not give a toss about any one else as long as they're okay and they're not the ones hurting.
 
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Nix said:
Someone naive at 16 gets their heart broken by some idiot and continues to hurt others in the future as they can't ever trust the same way or their perspective is warped into such a way they hurt people not through malice or spite but through an aquired selfish-disregard of their own. The buck has to stop somewhere.
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It doesn't always work like that though, it depends on the person. At 16, I had a boyfriend who liked to play mind games with me. He was a bully, who after a year had me believing that I was fat (size 8) and ugly. At 18, I had a boyfriend who split up with me because he 'didn't have time' for a relationship. A couple of weeks later he was with someone else. Then at 22 I had a boyfriend who cheated on me and left me for someone else. I'm now 24, in all the relationships I'd known I wasn't treated very well at all, but I still trust people, my perspective isn't warped. I just know now that sometimes, **** happens and I'll know how to handle it if it happens again. It all depends on your mindset I suppose...
 
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:( Wow, you have had pretty bad luck tis...

I would quickly fully star out the swearie though - I don't think even the 1 letter being there is allowed.

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I would say though that eventually if you let it happen you will find love, but if keep cynical - well love will never find you.

The old saying " it is better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all" comes to mind I guess... but I suppose is of little comfort when someone causes you heartache...

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Sorry tis I realized after reading my reply I sounded a bit dismissive, I just didn't want you to earn a holiday :)
 
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Similar situation here mate. It takes a hell of a lot longer than you think to get over it, and even when you think you're there, something pops up and triggers all the hurt again.

Probably not what you want to hear, but better to know it's coming!

At the same time, there <is> a light at the end of the tunnel, you will eventually feel better about it, even though you totally don't believe it right now! (This is what people keep telling me anyway!)

Nitefly said:
Two weeks is quite a long time, providing your partner hasn't just died or something similar.
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AHAHAHHhhahahahahhah... sorry, I almost died at how comical that is. Two weeks was about how long it took for it to actually sink properly in for me. 2 months later and it feels as raw as it did to start with.
 
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I do hope that one day you will contribute something constructive to this forum, however I do feel my optimism is badly misplaced

nothing wrong with what i said, why dont you edit the other 100000 posts which are equally useless

your personal problem with me is something a mod shouldnt have
 
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I agree with the majority of other people, when you look back in hindsight a year down the line you will be glad that you are rid of her.
A similar thing happened to me with an equally heartless *****, but thankfully i'm now with someone who eclipses her in every way.
In the long run things will work out for you.
 
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