Source? You can give £5000 to your daughter or son IHT free at their wedding but I've not heard anything about Christmas or a Birthday.
Source was the solicitor and tax adviser dealing with my grandmother's will.
Guess the tax adviser needs to start reading up a bit!
Regular gifts or payments that are part of your normal expenditure
Any regular gifts you make out of your after-tax income, not including your capital, are exempt from Inheritance Tax. These gifts will only qualify if you have enough income left after making them to maintain your normal lifestyle.
These include:
* monthly or other regular payments to someone
* regular gifts for Christmas and birthdays, or wedding/civil partnership anniversaries
* regular premiums on a life insurance policy - for you or someone else
You can also make exempt maintenance payments to:
* your husband, wife or civil partner
* your ex-spouse or former civil partner
* relatives who are dependent on you because of old age or infirmity
* your children, including adopted children and step-children, who are under 18 or in full-time education
http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/MoneyTa...oTax/InheritanceTaxEstatesAndTrusts/DG_179336
Still that's only the government's site about IHT, what do they know?
Wedding gifts do have a limit of £5,000 though.