how to make a women feel special

jamesmorris86

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hey guys, was just hoping to get a few oppinions, or rather some advice.
my girlfriend has been very upset these last few months with some family problems she is going through, and tbh has just distanced herself a little bit (she prefers to be alone when she is upset, which is pretty much every day :( )

so, ive got a couple of jingle bell ball tickets for tomorrow, and im going to take her for a nice lunch up london before the concert, but does anyone have any ideas of any nice little things or gestures i could do that may make her smile, even if just for a moment

ive already done the favourite flowers thing, so any other ideas?

if theres any women online, what would make you feel special on a day out in london ?

cheers for any tips, and for any friday night drunken funny replys i may get :P
 
Hey, that's nice of you..first of all I'm sure she'll appreciate the jingle bell ball and lunch.. For lunch maybe go somewhere by the river and have some wiiine.. Why don't you get her some jewellery, just something pretty from accessorize to give to her during the meal.. when you do just tell her something like you just wanted her to feel as special as she deserves and that she means a lot to you/that you love her.

You could even write her a poem. Just be someone fun that she can enjoy being with and forget her problems. Don't talk about it or ask her if she's ok - chances are if you ask that she'll get irritated/distant because deep down she's not ok. She'll have an awesome time I'm sure you've done enough already now just be good company, hold her, kiss her and tell her how much she means to you ;)

edit: how sappy do I sound!? haha
 
the trouble is everyone is different, so any advice given will be based pretty much one thing that we know, which is that she likes to be alone when upset.

i'm the same, when upset i prefer to be alone, and it hate it when people try to sort me out. there is nothing wrong with being down/upset if i'm not suicidal so leave me alone etc. maybe she is the same and you helping is making it worse?
 
Mammalian said:
the trouble is everyone is different, so any advice given will be based pretty much one thing that we know, which is that she likes to be alone when upset.

i'm the same, when upset i prefer to be alone, and it hate it when people try to sort me out. there is nothing wrong with being down/upset if i'm not suicidal so leave me alone etc. maybe she is the same and you helping is making it worse?
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I don't know... usually I don't like to be alone when I'm upset but the reason I will tell people to leave me is if theyre making it worse - looking at me pityingly, asking me if I'm ok, being a general tard etc..

I think that if someone can be suave and just sweep you off your feet it makes you completely forget anything is wrong and you start to adore/look forward to their company. I don't think he'll make it worse..
 
Mammalian said:
the trouble is everyone is different, so any advice given will be based pretty much one thing that we know, which is that she likes to be alone when upset.

i'm the same, when upset i prefer to be alone, and it hate it when people try to sort me out. there is nothing wrong with being down/upset if i'm not suicidal so leave me alone etc. maybe she is the same and you helping is making it worse?
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Have to agree here just be yourself you probably just **** her off more, some people like myself like to be left alone.
 
i'm not sure if i can post it here but go to youtube and search

"the lonely island in a box"

your ladyfriend will love you for it
 
May I be the first one to say "smash her pasty". :o:eek:... sorry couldn't help it.

Seriously, I think you are doing enough. Don't try and overdo it as it will start to annoy her. Just be there for her and try and take her mind off it (as you've already done).

Good luck.
 
Sorry to say this, but she don't want you.

You can always tell and i think you already know.

Which is why you ask, you just want confermation.
 
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