Your opinion is very strongly against the Tamron given you have only had experience of the one, yet you are on your third Sigma? I am on my first Tamron as are two of my friends. As D.P says, QC could well be lacking on both, however, virtually every review I have read favours 'the older' Tamron as being noticably better. My own personal experience of using both, would lead me to believe the reviews are correct. I am certain I have a perfect copy of the Tamron also.
You say the 'Sigma is better built by a mile' ... how are you testing this? I dropped my Tamron on some rocks, it bounced and I have had no issues with it since. It did not even graze. Do you mean you 'prefer' the feel of it and how it works?
Lastly, the wide versus macro comment. My Tamron can go as close as a foot away from my son (even closer I think) when I have taken his picture and my camera has had absolutely no issue focussing. How close do you want to be to your subject? The width is 'very' noticable between the two when you are using them, you have only got to look through the viewfinder at a landscape to see this. Everyone favours the extra width, me included.
I am just countering your strong comments against the Tamron; not a pop at you in any way (I know what forums are like for people misinterpretting).
EDIT: Just to add, I have got Digital Camera magazine which reviews them all and the Tamron recieves a very average/poor review for IQ. I will add that this is the new version of the lens with Tamrons equivalent image stabilisation. The same magazine reviewed the older Tamron (second edition with motor in body) as outstanding performance. May be worth sourcing the older one for those looking.