What do you think about love?

anant_shah94 said:
I think that this is the thing I want most: a mutual bond with somebody, this is what love represents for me
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Then keep your options open. Don't just get fixated on a particular body type, hair colour, height etc. or you may miss your true love.
 
Don't get hung up on it. It'll slap you in the face when it's the right one. I for one believe you can get an idea upon meeting and beginning to know somebody if you could love them/spend the rest of your life with them. Although perhaps it's a bit naieve of me to think in this way.
 
It's not the sort of thing you can 'order'. Or suddenly find. 'Right turned 25 yesterday, better find myself somebody before I die alone!'

It's like when you go looking for your keys or wallet, you rarely find them.
 
You know when you're in love - nobody else can tell you otherwise.

As for those that might cynically cite 'we are all just chemicals blahdiblah love is rubbish', I hope that you never fall in love or get married so that you are unlikely to have children meaning that your ridiculous ways of thinking will be removed from the gene pool :p
 
Love is what's left when all the initial lust/spark and exitement has faded down. I don't believe that you should wish you had someone to love, so don't go trying to find that person as it's when you stop looking that you'll find them.
 
my advice, put love out of your mind and try and get as many (worthwhile) notches on your bed post as possible. When you are a bit older the love stuff will be less interesting and more natural, just go with it, don't think about it and for god's sake don't talk about it again!;)
 
Love is a weird one, it'll just smack you in the face when you least expect it sometimes. To be honest one way to realise it's love is when the person you spend time with isn't around and you sit there thinking "wtf is that feeling...holy ****, do I miss them that much?" It's very easy to be going out with a girl, think she's crazily hot and get up to all sorts of stuff in the sack, but to be besotted on top of that? Even if she does something that majorly ****es you off? That's something that you'll realise and not have to ask yourself.
 
anant_shah94 said:
I'm hoping this doesn't happen to me, I hope I meet said soulmate in my mid twenties. So about 10 years from now :D
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are you really 15? i didnt think there was anyone else on here a similar age to me lol, i really think i need to get myself a girlfriend, but they seem to shy away from me..:(
 
It's just hormones anant and like everyone else who went through adolescence: you'll just have to ride 'em out.

Mike, as an evolutionary biologist you of all people shouldn't be complaining about that. I mean, objectively speaking - what is love? *tilts head* - it's just an intense pair-bonding process.

Chances are, those who chase 'love' or a partner to rely on, never learnt to stand up on their own two feet in the first place. Be a man first; be great. At the moment, whether you fight me on this or not, the reality remains the same: you are still a boy. Grow up first, then you can let some gold-diggin' hoe-bag tug your heart-strings and tap your best-mate. At least then you'll be better prepared to stick your finger up at them and walk. :o

I'll tell you this for free though OP: love is not what you see on the T.V.

You will experience entirely subjectively depending on circumstance and the people involved; it's two-worlds colliding. It's messy. But, like any rise to the top: the only way back is down. Pain is inevitable when dealing with the subject; it's part-and-parcel.

Stop worrying and thinking about it as you'll end up watching the world go by and wonder why you got left behind. You'll have your head so deep in the clouds that you don't hear when the train eventually does pull up beside you.

Chill out, have a tug. Get on with your life.
 
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