My girlfriend doesn't like it when I talk to her friends?!

Belloni said:
How am I meant to get along with her mates if she doesn't like me talking to them?! I was having a general conversation with her mate this morning on facebook about stupid joky stuff, like she wanted to finish off her alien story to me. I was on the phone to her, (my girl friend) and I said the girl I was talking to she says hi to you, she replies why are you talking to her?! I said she wanted to finish an alien story! She goes how would you like it if I talked to your friends to which I replies I wouldn't care as it's not like I'm flirting with her mates! Just trying to make friends, as I thought girls liked it when you can get on with their best mates!

Is this just a defense mechanism of hers? Insecure I guess maybe?
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You left out the part where you slept with 7 of her other mates.
 
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i find this relevant
 
Morba said:
Sounds like you are all about 14 years old
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This.

However my friends girlfriend got him to remove all is female friends from FaceBook and won't allow him to have the FaceBook iPhone App 'cause he may "talk to girls..." :rolleyes:

I cannot stand insecurity. If you don't have trust what is the point in going out? Most of my friends on FaceBook are women. A lot of my friends at work are women. My wife knows this and is cool with it.
 
LordSplodge said:
However my friends girlfriend got him to remove all is female friends from FaceBook and won't allow him to have the FaceBook iPhone App 'cause he may "talk to girls..." :rolleyes:
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Wow, that's really bad... I have a lot of girl friends, and if my girlfriend told me to delete them, I'd tell her to **** off! :rolleyes:
 
Just kick her! My current girl friend's friends get along well with me and she gets along well with my friends. It would be silly for her to get silly about any of the girls im friends with and its sill for the girl you going with to as well.

On wards with smashing all her friends pasties as she sounds too insecure to be in a real relationship...
 
she doesnt want her mates slipping her secrets out. as soon as they realize your a nice guy they will tell you all the bad things she gets up to
 
Belloni said:
How am I meant to get along with her mates if she doesn't like me talking to them?! I was having a general conversation with her mate this morning on facebook about stupid joky stuff, like she wanted to finish off her alien story to me. I was on the phone to her, (my girl friend) and I said the girl I was talking to she says hi to you, she replies why are you talking to her?! I said she wanted to finish an alien story! She goes how would you like it if I talked to your friends to which I replies I wouldn't care as it's not like I'm flirting with her mates! Just trying to make friends, as I thought girls liked it when you can get on with their best mates!

Is this just a defense mechanism of hers? Insecure I guess maybe?
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It sounds like she's insecure and/or quite young. It could also be that she doesn't trust her friends not to flirt with you.
 
Flirting is fine, acting on it isn't. If she's that immature, dump her and find someone who has a shred of self respect and confidence in themselves.
 
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