My sisters father to be has bailed...

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What should I do?

He keeps messing her about saying he will stick with her and then every now and then bails out and basically tells her to Do not swear disguised or not! , over facebook might I add, he is a male stripper and a body trainer so gets a lot of female attention so is obviously sleeping around or not interested and using my sister.

I want to hurt the **** badly, more than usual, but don't want to overstep my sister to do so as she wants none of the family to say/do anything.

Where do I stand as a loving brother on this? Should I let her deal with it (she is in a state) or should I now step in and do something as I am sick of her being broken and messed around like this, specially as it's his bloody kid on the way.

ags
 
Your job as a loving brother is to support your sister and respect her wishes in this matter.
 
Some men and even women dont care about their children, personally I would just let him go and leave it, he will be sorry one day he was not their for them, if he isnt then hes a grade A ****
 
I can't really add to what has already been said, just stand by her and be a good listener when she needs a shoulder to cry on!
 
Seriously though agnes, unless he gives her a shade of blue and purple if you know what I mean, its best to stay out of it!
 
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agnes said:
What should I do?

He keeps messing her about saying he will stick with her and then every now and then bails out and basically tells her to Do not swear disguised or not! , over facebook might I add, he is a male stripper and a body trainer so gets a lot of female attention so is obviously sleeping around or not interested and using my sister.

I want to hurt the **** badly, more than usual, but don't want to overstep my sister to do so as she wants none of the family to say/do anything.

Where do I stand as a loving brother on this? Should I let her deal with it (she is in a state) or should I now step in and do something as I am sick of her being broken and messed around like this, specially as it's his bloody kid on the way.

ags
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1: Obviously sleeping around? That's your logical decision making. Beating someone up? You don't sound so sure, you never said he was, you assumed.
2: As much right as it is for the lady in question to have the child or not, is the right for the father not to be in the relationship or not. Doesn't mean he won't have to pay support but that's a totally different subject.

My ex was a wreck, a total head-case and went off crying to people with flat out lies, gaining sympathy, what you thought about that guy is what other people thought about me, I hated it.
Beware because you may not have a clue what you're dealing with at all. Stay out of it unless you have PROOF.
 
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Can't make head or tails of this thread, sister is having some sort of pseudo-incestual relationship with a man who is going to become her step father, or his sister is pregnant with some guys child who keeps messing her around.
 
Gilly said:
I assumed his sis was pregnant...
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From what I can gather, the guy is the father of her unborn child, not actually her father, or anything, he's the father to be of Ag's nephew, not some wierd incestual relationship lol, unless I'm wrong :confused:
 
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