Feeling very melancholy tonight :(
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I know the feeling OP. Moved out of my parents about a year ago, live about 130ish miles away and don't have enough money to go visist as much as I'd like to, all my family are from Somerset and now I'm living in Hampshire, yeah ok so I've got my other halfs family but it's not the same.
Used to treat my brother like **** when I was living there but now I'm living away it's him I seem to miss the most.
They way I see it though is try not to dwell on it too muchand just get on with life, I know it sounds harsh but sometimes it's the only thing you can do. Also ditto on speaking to your Uni's student services about counselling, wish I had that option sometimes.
Used to treat my brother like **** when I was living there but now I'm living away it's him I seem to miss the most.
They way I see it though is try not to dwell on it too muchand just get on with life, I know it sounds harsh but sometimes it's the only thing you can do. Also ditto on speaking to your Uni's student services about counselling, wish I had that option sometimes.
This
. Having been away for months now, I can see how I treated my brothers badly, and my sisters indifferently. Not bad BAD, but just badly in terms of how much I love them.Can't wait to go home at Easter. Need to sort my act out
Said pretty much that to a friend of mine last night...her nan died 2 weeks a go...she swiftly punched me in the nose after I said it.
she must've thought you were hitting on her ;D
I often get thoughts like the OP, but I always find something to take my mind off it, loud music and beer works for me.
Everyone you love is going to die. You are going to die. Everything you do will be forgotten in time, and in the grand scheme of things your existence, along with that of everyone and everything you have ever known is irrelevant.
Have a nice day. Or don't, it doesn't matter.
Have a nice day. Or don't, it doesn't matter.
Shouldn't drink alone, but everyones out at the moment. Blaring out music and drinking some Ice cold stella's i've stacked up.
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Everyone feels like this from time to time, hell at least you are still at university, I was there once but now look at me, it seems like yesterday but it was 5 years ago now! If you think time is flying now then it is only going to get faster.
If we didn't get down from time to time we would simply carry on, I think we all need a bit of rubishness to make us progress, some people however just get on with it while others get stuck in it, don't get stuck.
so as obvious and patronising as this sounds you just have to go for it and put in as much effort as possible and do something. even if it isn't uni.
If we didn't get down from time to time we would simply carry on, I think we all need a bit of rubishness to make us progress, some people however just get on with it while others get stuck in it, don't get stuck.
so as obvious and patronising as this sounds you just have to go for it and put in as much effort as possible and do something. even if it isn't uni.
Hardly anyone does anything with their life other than live it. That's what it's for. Only a tiny number of people have any serious impact on anything much. If you expect to, you are very likely to be disappointed. Even people who do have a serious impact are usually forgotten within decades. We are temporary.
I was really down at the end of last semester just after talking to my parents. Hadn't seen them or my nan for 12 weeks and just was really quite depressing to be around.
You'll get over it.
Also I should have been out as well but was in my pyjamas with a cup of tea, some skittles and my xbox so definately wasn't moving
You'll get over it.
Also I should have been out as well but was in my pyjamas with a cup of tea, some skittles and my xbox so definately wasn't moving