Do you ever think about death?

I wouldn't be scared as much if I didn't have kids, but its only the thought of leaving my kids behind without a dad that scares me the most :(
 
Death is easy, nothing hard about dieing its the fact you leave people behind, my dad had a heart attack 18 months ago and survived but it really does make you think when a parent comes close to death. In a perfect world everybody would live till 90 and pass away in their sleep.
 
When you sleep, you have dreams to occupy you, even if you don't remember many (or any at all) when you wake up. Death is the end, no dreams, but surely you still have to manifest in some shape or form otherwise it would be boring.
 
You have spend a long time not existing before you were born so what's the issue with not existing after you die?
 
Enjoying every minute like it's your last?

Sounds like weakness due to the fear of death, fear of lack of self-worth, and the fear of non-fulfilment.

Live life. No worries. When it comes, it comes.


And that is what she said.
 
I dont bother thinking about it too much, you die when you die and thinking about it isnt going to help you live longer. I might not have the best of lives but i dont see the point UNLESS you KNOW you are actually dying to want to spend all day thinking about dying.

But then again i did hear (news paper) that once you hit 21 you actually start to to die due to your braincells start dying when you are around 21, so i guess just being 21 is killing you!
 
I'm now thinking more about what I was before I was born. :o

I mean those cells were around, they just hadn't met each other. Crazy really... then you start going back in the past more and more and end up at the big bang or whatever happened, then you start wondering what was there before whatever happened all those billions of years ago.... then you decide it's better just to go to sleep!
 
i think more about how scary it is that you have no control over it. no control of the end over the end of everything that you know. any of us here could just go to sleep tonight and never wake up , that terrify s me
 
It happens when it happens and there's not a lot we can do about it.
Why waste your time worrying about it?

Obviously there are steps we can take to prevent an early death, but I mean if I get hit by a bus tomorrow then so be it. Think happier thoughts :)
 
"andy" said:
i think more about how scary it is that you have no control over it. no control of the end over the end of everything that you know. any of us here could just go to sleep tonight and never wake up , that terrify s me
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i wouldnt say that NONE of us have control, i could go walk in front of a bus tomorrow and kill myself would that have been in my control? Yes- i am going to do it - No

But at the end of the day UNLESS you are planning on killing yourself or KNOW you are dying then its just too hard to tell when and how you are going to kick the bucket and die
 
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