That would be awesome thanks!
I've had my R36 since November, after changing from my Audi S3 because I was just finding it too small. Some of my comparisons will be with that car as a result.
The first thing I've noticed, in the UK at least, is rarity, I'm yet to see another one on the roads, which has both it's advantages and disadvantages. The car is nicely anonymous, which is great if you like that sort of thing, but I've also had a few people very confused why I changed my fast Audi for 'just a passat'. They look very surprised when I point out that the passat is very slightly quicker.
Performance-wise, the car is excellent. One thing I will say is that, in comparison with a turbocharged car, it doesn't 'feel' as fast, although the speedo certainly indicates otherwise. It accelerates well, brakes well, and steers well, although the extra weight compared to the S3 does show, and it does have a bit more of a tendancy to run the nose wide if you go in too fast, but is easily correctable. In common with other VAG group cars, the steering feel could be better, but it's not bad by any means. The DSG box is excellent, the best automatic I've driven, and the characteristics of the engine match it well. It does take a little while for the box to learn your driving style, but that just improves it more. Shifting in manual mode is very smooth and effortless. Sport mode seems largely pointless unless you're on a track (when you'd be using manual anyway) as all it does is refuse to change up until very close to the limiter. The car never quite shakes it's weight, but that's the price you pay for having the space. The standard tyres I believe also take some of the blame for this, but I'm not changing them yet as the car has only done 7k so far. Loosing the dunlops for something with stiffer sidewalls does lead to handling improvements according to other other owners.
Inside, the seats are very comfy, the air adjustable side bolsters seem gimmicky, but do work well enabling you to alter the 'hold' of the seat depending on what you are doing. The interior build quality is fine, there are a couple of places where it's noticeably worse than the audi (the main one I notice is the heating controls) but generally much of the switchgear is the same, and there are no rattles, squeaks or other unpleasantness.
Fuel economy is, well, ok. I think I'm averaging about 28mpg, rising to 30-31mpg on longer runs, although if you're driving round town regularly the economy drops quite rapidly, and can be sub 20mpg.
Anything else you want to know, let me know.
Oh, and just on the other topic of discussion, I would agree with those who said circumstances would help (although not that accused you of pretending or whatever). I stand by my advice that, in the UK at least, you should not buy one of these cars new, because the depreciation is shocking, and they make a much better second hand buy as a result. Your circumstances are somewhat different, and it would have changed how I approached the thread if all the information was available.