When is a female off limits?

Associate
Joined
19 Oct 2002
Posts
777
Location
Namco Wonderpark, London
Where do you lot draw the line when it comes to chasing a woman?

  1. sister of friend
  2. has a bf but unhappy in relationship
  3. has a bf but happy in relationship
  4. engaged/has a fiance
  5. married

Friend's sister - good if it goes well, but if it goes bad.. so a no from me. I would only chase a woman if she was single, wouldn't want to be the person 'splitting' people up.
 
sister of friend
Yes

has a bf but unhappy in relationship
Yes

has a bf but happy in relationship
Yes

engaged/has a fiance
No

married
No


I wouldn't repeatedly see a girl that was in a relationship, but it wouldn't stop me flirting and if they reciprocated it could go further, but next time I would tell her to make up her mind.

I don't like cheating but sometimes girls need showing how **** their current relationship is. a lot of girls just have a boyfriend for the sake of having one. So unless you wanna date only the rejects you are going to have to play with fire. This doesn't include very long term partners that just simply haven't got married, but your average dodgy relationship.
 
Tricky one... with 2 onwards its not like your forcing her to do anything... from experience tho if you cross those lines the relationships don't tend to last.
 
hmmm it depends for number 1. because it might cost the friendship, if he/she is happy with it.

2. no not really chances are it won't last any longer

3. no again **** happens

4. chances are it will last

5 . chances are it will last
 
I'd say no.1 is ok most of the time, the rest no, unless 2/3 was only starting a "physical" relationship after they finished with their current BF.

WRT no.1 is it bad if the "friend" would happen to be an ex? :p
 
sister of friend

For a 1 night stand - massively off limits.
However if you're serious about a long term relationship then why not.

has a bf but unhappy in relationship

fine, presumably she's looking to ditch him fairly soon anyway.

has a bf but happy in relationship

If she's happy in the relationship then she'd likely not be interested unless she's perhaps a bit slutty - so long as the boyfriend isn't a friend of yours then you could probably justify it along the lines of she's presumably banging other guys on the side too...

engaged/has a fiance
married

not really on tbh...
 
Back
Top Bottom