Probably not, DNG is 'digital negative', it's Adobe's semi-open RAW format (rather than the loads of different propriety formats the camera manufacturers use).
Batch converting RAW to JPG is a very difficult one to answer as a raw is literally the raw data straight off the camera sensor. It's not been sharpened or had the contrast or saturation increase (which the camera will do to an extent if you ask it for JPEGs), it's just the RAW data.
If you're not experienced in processing RAW files then I'd say getting your wedding photos in that format isn't terribly helpful, maybe one of our resident wedding 'togs will comment but I wouldn't expect them to supply the average customer with (fairly useless with work) RAW files...in fact I'd kinda expect, unless you've gone for a very cheap package, them to have done a decent amount of processing for you. Just dumping 36GB of RAW images on you doesn't seem terribly professional...