A girl problem! Sorry!

Spawn said:
Probably but then id tell her that the number is between my meat and 2 veg and she would have to find it herself:p:D...in no time we would be having plenty of sexy time:p
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Ah...then she'd probably either :

a) Grab a spade and head into your garden and ask where your meat plant is.

or

b) Wonder why you keep the phone numbers of footballers next to your private parts

:D
 
Thermaltake said:
True but i think we had some strong feelings with each other. I want to spend my time with her. Ive never had a relationship and i want to experience one. She's never had one either...just a boyfriend in high school for 6 months.
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Tell her this. SIMPLES
 
Tombstone said:
Ah...then she'd probably either :

a) Grab a spade and head into your garden and ask where your meat plant is.

or

b) Wonder why you keep the phone numbers of footballers next to your private parts

:D
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Well id tell her that its the best place to keep things hidden...i mean she isnt the brightest crayon in the box if she gets her ***s out for the mags:p:D

And if she still doesnt get it...id just hit her over the head with a spade and bury her in the garden...next to my meat plant:p:D
 
Spawn said:
Well id tell her that its the best place to keep things hidden...i mean she isnt the brightest crayon in the box if she gets her ***s out for the mags:p:D
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I dunno mate...she doesnt seem that stupid when she speaks on camera. She obviously knows she can make money from her looks. Shes having the last laugh with her bank manager.
 
If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son. I got 99 problems...

but seriously. Let her go, when friends and exs and girls get messed up, it can get ugly. Make the harder, but better overall, choice. Let her be, you'll always feel something for her, but you'll find someone else.
 
TangoSixteen said:
So the OP is chasing a girl who has banged two of his mates already, and hasnt banged the OP?

This I suspect is fail before its even started.
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I'm the only one she has been with all year. She had sex with a random guy but she said it was a complete mistake. Its pretty chewed...i probably am getting hecked up for nothing. It probably is the whole want what i cant have scenerio! We got on great but to be fair i was'nt very emetionally attached to her when we seeing each other...i didnt give her any part of my heart! She was absolutley infatuated with us though. I know she was tho as she was round at mine the whole time. She literally moved in....haha!
 
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Yea, see what you've done here? You've come anonymously on a forum to find help for your problems. From what you've said, that's not the way to do it. You say you have trouble letting people in, and i'm afraid the best way to get over that is to spend more time with people, and become more confident with them. That way you'll be able to boil your 'friends' down to a small group of people you can really trust.

Then you'll be able to talk to them and feel better for it, having strengthened your friendships rather than having to resort to an anonymous forum, which will do little to nothing for you in the long run.


Anyway my advice? DTMFA and move on. Plenty of fish left in the sea, and you will find someone who you can really connect with and you'll be happy to let in to your life fully. Also the angst will pass, give it time.


Thermaltake said:
...She had sex with a random guy but she said it was a complete mistake...
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..orly? :p

In fairness, maybe she has deeper problems than you w.r.t. self esteem and image.
 
stulid said:
grow a pair, and use them
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Sometimes this forum ****** me off. I can't stand these comments; the endless put-downs, the need for witty (not) one-liners all the time.

Do you guys feel better about yourselves when you post this kind of comment?
 
FoxEye said:
Sometimes this forum ****** me off. I can't stand these comments; the endless put-downs, the need for witty (not) one-liners all the time.

Do you guys feel better about yourselves when you post this kind of comment?
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So Foxy what do you think the OP should do ??
 
TangoSixteen said:
So the OP is chasing a girl who has banged two of his mates already, and hasnt banged the OP?

This I suspect is fail before its even started.
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OP if this IS the situation then I'm afraid the odds of it going somewhere are lower than England winning the next world cup.

Does this mean that there isn't a chance? Not at all, but to be honest, how would the trust ever be there for a long term relationship?

If you have been "together" even if not "TOGETHER" that long and she is uninhibited enough to have slept with some of your mates but not you......then either she is saving the best for last or she is just not into you.

It's tough and I wouldn't wish it on anyone, but I really REALLY would get some time together (if you can't even arrange this, but **** it, it's not worth persuing) and just come out with it honestly. None of this oh ever lasting my love is like a red red rose etc, just be blunt. Put it in such a way that she has to make a decision with reasons.

Just remember 23 is young (says the guy only a bit younger and who fervently hopes thats the case ahhaha), your love who will see you to your grave could just be round the corner :p
 
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