do you consider married women out of bounds

Magic_x_uk said:
Just a question,

If you are single

If you were attracted to a married women. Would you pursue it?

If you knew 110% she was interested! as you had already spent time together.

If you also knew without question that you both get on amazingly well and feel like you have known each other years.

It could also be said that this person feels like your soulmate.
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Marriage would equal out of bounds, if shes that interested in you, why is she married
 
I'd think very carefully about this if I were you - I've been on the wrong end of this situation, it's not pretty, people get seriously hurt and kids damaged - it's not worth it, there's enough non-married women to have your fun with.
 
Judgeneo said:
Marriage would equal out of bounds, if shes that interested in you, why is she married
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I suspect she got married before she met this person. It happens, you only have to consider the fact that half of marriages fail (and doubtless some that don't where there is still infidelity) to realise that people who get married don't always stay faithful.
 
Doesn't change the fact that marriage is a serious commitment and adultery seriously contributes to those failing statistics.
 
The point I'm making is that the fact she's interested in somebody else has little bearing on the fact that she is married, if the marriage occurred before she even met this third party (unless something has been going on for a very long time, in which case you might ask why she hasn't ended the marriage).
 
Married = inbounds and fairplay



Sorry, but if she likes me better than her fella then why should we miss out on being happy - assuming she was later planing to leave him.
 
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Rroff said:
Your not the one thats ruining the marriage tho... she is... tho being associated with it isn't nice either...
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That's delegation. It takes two to tango. By being the third party, you're just as much to blame as she is. As an adult, you should be fully aware of what you are doing. The only way you could possibly justify the scenario is if you were completely unaware that she was married in the first place, or the married was already in the process of ending before you arrived.
 
jp_bl_68 said:
Completely agree. She's married, you're not. It's her marriage to ruin if that's what she wants.
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Absolute rubbish.

That's like saying it's a homeowners fault he was robbed because he happened to leave the door open, completely ignoring the fact some dubious individual was the one who chose to steal.
 
Nix said:
That's delegation. It takes two to tango. By being the third party, you're just as much to blame as she is. As an adult, you should be fully aware of what you are doing. The only way you could possibly justify the scenario is if you were completely unaware that she was married in the first place, or the married was already in the process of ending before you arrived.
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Not that I'm advocating it - but I hate the perception that somehow if the guy does nothing its all fine and dandy - if shes prepared to sleep with someone other than her husband does it make a difference if she does the act or not?
 
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