do you consider married women out of bounds

Nix said:
Absolute rubbish.

That's like saying it's a homeowners fault he was robbed because he happened to leave the door open, completely ignoring the fact some dubious individual was the one who chose to steal.
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If she opens her legs something is going to robbed from her larder
 
Rroff said:
Not that I'm advocating it - but I hate the perception that somehow if the guy does nothing its all fine and dandy - if shes prepared to sleep with someone other than her husband does it make a difference if she does the act or not?
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It's her fault the marriage is broken. It's her marriage and she's the one that's choosing to destroy it, agreed. But - and this is the point I'm making - by being the third party here, you are no way devoid of guilt as you were part of the iconoclasm.
 
i keep trying to get it on with a married woman but not very succesfully it seems

guess i'm going to ahve to buy Mrs Foxtrot a box of anadin
 
Nix said:
Absolute rubbish.

That's like saying it's a homeowners fault he was robbed because he happened to leave the door open, completely ignoring the fact some dubious individual was the one who chose to steal.
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That's a bad analogy, imo. I'm not taking anything, it's being given to me. She's an adult capable of making her own decisions, for better or worse. She chose to get married and now she's choosing to throw it away.
 
jp_bl_68 said:
That's a bad analogy, imo. I'm not taking anything, it's being given to me. She's an adult capable of making her own decisions, for better or worse. She chose to get married and now she's choosing to throw it away.
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And you're choosing to help her in doing so and therefore implicated in sharing the blame. If you want to be an innocent party, let her make her own mistakes. **** her when the marriage has ended, not before.
 
If you are single and she is the chaser, then yes. For me to say no would be hypocritical. Saying that, no I am married, I wouldn't like to be the person being cheated on.
 
Its more like blaming someone for stealing from you after you son stood in the front yard offering your xbox to a random passerby because he was "bored" of it.
 
Nix said:
And you're choosing to help her in doing so and therefore implicated in sharing the blame. If you want to be an innocent party, let her make her own mistakes. **** her when the marriage has ended, not before.
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If a married woman is showing an interest in me what makes you think the marriage isn't already over?
 
Just because someone is inviting you to do something, doesn't mean you have to do it. The third party bears responsibilty just the same as the first and second. Don't want the guilt/responsibility? Don't become the third party. It's all very simple.

jp_bl_68 said:
If a married woman is showing an interest in me what makes you think the marriage isn't already over?
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How do you know it isn't? Could just be a bad patch.
 
Nix said:
Just because someone is inviting you to do something, doesn't mean you have to do it. The third party bears responsibilty just the same as the first and second. Don't want the guilt/responsibility? Don't become the third party. It's all very simple.
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If it were me, I wouldn't feel guilty or responsible.

How do you know it isn't? Could just be a bad patch.
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I'm not her marriage counsellor. It's up to the husband and wife to make the marriage work. If she's interested in me then someone isn't holding up their end of the deal, either the husband, the wife or both of them. Anyway, that's their problem not mine.

I'm not going to try to break up a marriage. If she's interested in me and I want to pursue a relationship with her then I'll let her know that I'm available, but it's up to her to make the first move.
 
Rroff said:
gonna break hers too?
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Nah - I love her too much.

Fact is - my missus likes to enjoy herself. She'll regularly go out clubbing with her mates who look after her and have a good time (it's not really my thing, so I stay in). I don't mind that blokes will offer to buy her a drink or have a dance with her either. She's a fair looking lass and is usually clear from the start that she's hitched and with her mates to have a good time. What really grinds my gears is the dogs who think that 'cause she's out clubbing she's fair game. Thankfully, most NZ lads get the picture and respect a married lass. They're happy to have a laugh or just leave. The one's that don't...

And my experience of England is there are a lot more chancers will little respect for the ladies. They're coming up with bull like 'she doesn't really know what she really wants' or 'she smiled at me, she must be gagging for it'. Those ***** can swallow my keyboard and a size 9.
 
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