Have a bad feeling, G/F might be cheating.

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Dicehunter

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So as the title says, she might be cheating.
I get this very funny feeling that she is because shes become distant, everything from normal stuff right to the bedroom, she goes out on girly nights dolled up and i mean dolled, shortest possible skirt, leggings so you can see everything she was born with, very high heel shoes, makeup to the hilt and when i say "can i come along" she just says "its a girly evening", right girly evening going out dressed like that, more like man hunt evening.
I mean im far from a bad boyfriend, i treat her like a lady, respect her boudries etc etc... buy her gifts, she makes an effort to look good so i started going to the gym just over a year ago to get a hot bod *coming along very nicely BTW* but i get the feeling that shes not all that faithful :(

Anyone got any advice on this type of stuff, i would really appreciate it.
 
DF1986 said:
I mean im far from a bad boyfriend, i treat her like a lady, respect her boudries etc etc... buy her gifts, she makes an effort to look good so i started going to the gym just over a year ago to get a hot bod *coming along very nicely BTW* but i get the feeling that shes not all that faithful :(

Anyone got any advice on this type of stuff, i would really appreciate it.
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That's why. You're a doormat, she knows this and wants to have her cake and eat it. She has Mr Easy-to-get-what-i-want-from (that's you) and she's looking for Mr badass-bit-on-the-side for some fun.

If in doubt, chuck her out. It'll be easier in the long run.
 
If you confront her, she will either say yes she is, or no she isn't but kick up a fuss aswell. I'd follow her one night tbh, just to see.
 
Feek said:
Talk to her, not the internet. Only she has the answer.
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She'll go on he defensive and deny any wrong doing, call him a bad boyfriend for being overly protective and whatnot. Yes, it's the best solution but it doesn't always work.

If her actions are making you unhappy, remember you don't have to live with it. There's plenty of faithful, good girls out there with modesty and respect for themselves. You don't have to live with the grief!
 
Vita said:
If you confront her, she will either say yes she is, or no she isn't but kick up a fuss aswell. I'd follow her one night tbh, just to see.
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If you do this, make sure you don't get caught.

If you are the doormat and she wants excitement then when she gets in grab her and take her upstairs, completely spontaneously.
 
Only way is to get one of your friends to rape her when shes on her way home from a night out so she will never go out like that ever again and will cry for days and you can be there to pick up the pieces.

Or........ you could be a man talk to her and if you're not happy with the answers get rid and move on.

No point in worrying about these things as they will eat away in side of you (been there the same as you and the outcome was I dumped her before I tore my self apart)

KaHn
 
if she reacts like that, is it worth it?

Honesty is the best policy. If you cant openly talk about her going out looking like smut and you not liking it, then something is wrong.

obviously dont go "you cheatin on me ho?", talk to her properly, explain how your not happy, how things don't feel right atm, and after a while if its going well explain how the whole dressing up to impress is making your brain run rings.
 
If you ask her you may get the response from her that she isn't. Whilst following her may give you an answer do you want to do that? Talk to her, if you don't come to an understanding, dump her. That said, I agree with whoever said you are a doormat, treat them mean...
 
u say she is cheating but do u live in a house with her all the time?if u do u can easy tell she cheats.U should know yourself if something is up or not.women can be strange creatures:p.. If u live with her and she uses a pc to talk to friends and stuff there is a program called a keylogger.Its caught a lot of ppl out ,but u can class it as spying really.:eek:
 
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