Have a bad feeling, G/F might be cheating.

Dunks said:
Exactly.

The last comment is so true, you should hear the comments every time I'm out with the gf or my female friends about other girls out where we are.

Nothing but competition!
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How do you explain lack of interest in bedroom etc lately??
 
Listen to Patrick, he knows what to do.

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There is no good outcome here... All possible results for this encounter have been calculated... She will enrage, no matter how you put it.

1) You ask her and she's not messing around, she enrages because you don't trust her.
2) You ask her and she is messing around, which of course she will deny. She will turn this around and say you don't trust her... Then enrage.
3) You follow here and she catches you, enrage...
4) Enrage...

As you can see it's not pretty...

TrUz
 
Tell her she doesn't need to dress like that to look great etc. as she's going so it doesn't seem so aggressive, if she is cheating you have no reason to be polite, but you don't want to screw up your relationship because of paranoia!
 
shifty_uk said:
She'll go on he defensive and deny any wrong doing, call him a bad boyfriend for being overly protective and whatnot. Yes, it's the best solution but it doesn't always work.
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If she's got anything about her she'll reassure him and talk any worries he has through with him.
 
Oi mate...

If my bird started goin out alone like that well i wouldnt even let her tbh Il question her need to dress up showing all her precious commodities.

If she says girls night out Bs shes not goin out like that on a regular she needs to know boundries.

A girl doesnt go out like that alone with girls just to chill with girls simple.

If my bird did that I wouldnt hesitate to kick up some bs because she has no respect for our relationship if she thinks she can do that.

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I totally dont mind my gf going out with friends right no problem but if shes going out wearing things as you describe all the time and gives me that kind of bs that i cant come loool mate shes gonna get it.
 
Shave all her hair when she comes home stone drunk, blame it on someone else, say she come home like that, no one would want a baldy then. :D
 
Pics are definately required. Preferably one with her in a short skirt and leggings so more advice can be given.

Or just speak to her.
 
No response from the OP since opening the thread?

Well, from what I understand, women will often break up with you mentally month(s) before the event takes place. They will often go off hunting for the next catch to save herself being without attention when you do finally split.

The only way to know is to talk to her. If you have your suspicions then it's not a good sign for the relationship. The moment you start having doubts, unless it's quickly rectified, you are on a slippery slope to singledom and rekindling your passion with lady palm and her five friends.

Do you have trust/jealousy issues normally? If so then perhaps rethink your suspicions, if not then your gut is telling you something. You won't be able to ignore it until you get to the bottom of it.

Good luck!
 
fail at the internets said:
Op just needs to remember that all girls like to dress up and have a good night out every now and then. I think he's looking into it a bit too much, although she does seem to be taking the **** a little bit if she's going out in ridiculously short short attire, speak to her about it if it bothers you so much.
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I don't think he is looking into it too much. I think more people need to trust their gut feeling more rather than lying to themselves or trying to rationalise things. My bet is that it isn't going to *just* be the fact she is getting dressed up or whatever. It will be her whole demeaner and attitude towards him that will be the give away, and 99.9999% of the time distant means only one thing - impending breakup/cheating.

I'm willing to bet that she will be breaking up with you soon, but in the mean time ask her about it and watch her reaction. That'll tell you everything you'll need to know.
 
If you think she is cheating you clearly have a reason to think that.

If you want to find out if she is cheating, the only way you will find out is by having words with her. OcUK can't tell you the answer.

Also, update OP!
 
Just sack her, She'll either disappear or sit down & want to chat.
One thing I will say though is I encourage my women to dress up & go out with there mates as it gives me a night off & it's good for the woman. I see no problem with her wearing short skirts if she is wearing leggings as well although I hate leggings & ban my women from wearing them.
My women can wear what they want & do what they want, if they are Loyal to me I keep them if they aren't i just sack'em No biggy.
 
Following her is stupid, creepy and bad advice. Don't do it.

I've had issues with my GF regarding this as well. She says it is just to make herself feel good and I understand that now. I trust her enough not to do anything when she goes out on her own and I know she trusts me too. The dressing up is partly because all her friends will be too and obviously, she enjoys the attention she will recieve from other guys and the power trip of being able to say no.

The best advice is like some other guy said; take her upstairs when she gets back in dressed like that. All the other guys out get to see her but only you get to be with her. She could be doing this to make you jealous / provoke you into such an action without you realizing. If you just assume she's cheating on you you could end up blowing things.
 
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malc30 said:
Just sack her, She'll either disappear or sit down & want to chat.
One thing I will say though is I encourage my women to dress up & go out with there mates as it gives me a night off & it's good for the woman. I see no problem with her wearing short skirts if she is wearing leggings as well although I hate leggings & ban my women from wearing them.
My women can wear what they want & do what they want, if they are Loyal to me I keep them if they aren't i just sack'em No biggy.
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How much can you contradict yourself in one post? :confused:
 
Adam said:
How much can you contradict yourself in one post? :confused:
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I realised that when i posted it but it's hard to explain.
For me I don't ban anything I just encourage what i want if you get me. I give my women a lot of attention & they notice when I don't like something as much & they don't wear it.
I am lucky though that women trust my judgement when it comes to the clothes they should wear to make the most of themselves.
 
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