[TW]Fox;17095734 said:
Have you considered the notion that home ownership isn't a right and nobody owes you the ability to have a home? If you can't afford to buy a house, well, thats a shame, there are lots of people who cannot afford to buy a £150,000 appreciating asset, it's not the end of the world.
Rent instead, or get a better job if you wish to buy really expensive things.
And next time don't post weird sentances and I won't be attracted to your thread
I wanted to say something similar but thought it wasn't worth the argument. It aint a right to own a property, nor does the government or any scheme owes you the right of it being easy to acquire a place.
It's uncanny how my situation was the same as the OP until I stopped making lame excuses or cry on forums or anywhere where people don't give a crap at the end of the day. I took all responsibility upon myself. I blamed nobody but myself.
I got a second job, I became utterly obsessed about budgeting and saving where I could. For 5 years all I did was buy specials or Buy One Get One Free's. I stole toilet paper at work and used it at home so I didn't have to spend the money to buy. I have moved to the smallest and cheapest place I could find and slummed it there for years. I went from having nothing to owning my own property with NO mortgage in 6 years. We're already working on new houses, or investments rather, but that's another story. I've just turned 30.
OP, this is what you do. Sit down with a pen and paper, write down your incomings and outgoings. Take the variable costs (phone, food, entertainment) and chop the amount in half. Make it work, I don't care how, nor should you, just make it work. If you have a car and the shops are close, walk there, I still do it to this day and I have a car and 4k a month disposable income. I walk 3 miles to Tesco and back to save on fuel.
Get a cheaper phone contract (I pay £5 a month for my own personal mobile), cheaper ISP (£12 here), forego any gym contracts and start hitting the road for fitness (if you train that is), cancel your Sky (mainly crap anyway) , spend 3 hours in Tesco/ASDA/Waitrose/Wherever and fish out all the bargains. Plan your meals, battle like hell with insurance companies for better deals, same with holiday packages. Get exited about saving money. Make sure you have a savings account, write down the amount in it and plastered it all around your room/house. If you see it around you enough, and see the numbers go up weekly/monthly, it starts getting exiting.
Alternatively, ignore all I said and keep crying on forums to faceless screen names who would've forgotten about your plight roughly 9 seconds after posting a barely throughout reply.