feel bad at what ive put my mum through

Give your mum a cuddle, tell her your sorry for the past year, but only if you mean it.

Maybe ask her what she would like for her birthday ?.
 
dmpoole said:
Respect for owning up to your addiction & problems but this thread will turn into pages of people slagging you off.
Now you've admitted the problem you can start the slow process of making your Mother trust you again.
The best present in the world would be for you to sit down with her, admit to what a bad boy you've been and to come to a solution with her help (because she will want to help).
Of course you could then take her for a meal.
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Don't often find myself agreeing with dm, but he's spot on here.

Buy her some flowers and tell her how much you love her.
 
I see allot of clueless people in this thread already.

Now you admit and know you have a problem, get it sorted.
 
Go out today and get some bits for fry up/fruit salad depending on what your mum likes. Wake up early, shower, dress and make your mum breakfast. Let her know you're going to change and apologise for what you've put her through.
 
bigbrownman said:
Im 18, and for the past year ive put my mum through a lot of bad things, ive had drug problem and i cant imagine what she must have thought when she found out my pysical addiction to valium, its her birthday tommorow and im thinking of something nice to do for her, any suggestions?

thanks
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Don't beat yourself up to much bigbrownman at least you're sorry and take notice of the distress it has brought onto your mum and want to do something about it. Myself like many others on this forum have ****** up before, both past and present so you're not alone;). How about taking your mum out for dinner or surprising her with a really nice surprise meal at home?


KaHn said:
How about you run away and leave her in peace? Probably the best thing for her?
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If you don't have anything constructive to say then don't say anything at all! All it does is make you come a cross like a floppy penis sagging over your keyboard.:rolleyes:
 
Take her out for a nice meal and tell your sorry and you love her.

Tell her you plan to go study or get a job, assuming you haven't done either due to to your drugs.
 
KaHn said:
How about you run away and leave her in peace? Probably the best thing for her?

Or you could just take her out for a meal and spend some time with her?.....You know like normal person would?

KaHn
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There is just no need for that is there?

As others have said, do something nice for her. You don't need to be spending a lot of money, it will be the though and effort that counts. Sit down and have a good chat with her, let her know what's going on with you and how you plan on making things right. Don't forget to ask her how's she feeling... it's not all about you... ;)

Good luck and hope you get well soon.

TrUz
 
hi guys, thanks for the replys, people saying i should be like a normal person etc, i used valium because i have severe anxiety problems, and yes i did have a seizure coming off it, where going out for a meal tonight :)
 
bigbrownman said:
hi guys, thanks for the replys, people saying i should be like a normal person etc, i used valium because i have severe anxiety problems, and yes i did have a seizure coming off it, where going out for a meal tonight :)
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Good man, don't let her down eh? :)

TrUz
 
Justin said:
It sounds like an Asim thread.
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I don't think he would make an alt account, even for this :p

Signing up to a forum to start going on about your drug addiction is well, even more strange than the fact you are a druggie to begin with.

Are you sure you've given it up? :p
 
bigbrownman said:
hi guys, thanks for the replys, people saying i should be like a normal person etc, i used valium because i have severe anxiety problems, and yes i did have a seizure coming off it, where going out for a meal tonight :)
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I have severe anxiety also and I don't have valium prescribed to me on a regular basis, although I have been thrown a few strong Diazipam from time to time when I have gone super loopy. But thats due to almost being sectioned:o.

I hope you and your mother have a nice evening.:)
 
KaHn said:
How about you run away and leave her in peace? Probably the best thing for her?

Or you could just take her out for a meal and spend some time with her?.....You know like normal person would?

KaHn
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wordy said:
You are joking right?
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It really wouldn't surprise me if he wasn't

Marky said:
It's all well and good admitting you have a problem - but how many times do you see someone get out of a hole they've dug so deep for themselves...

I don't know if it's just me being cynical because I'm tired and in work - but more likely than not he could just put false hope into his mum - and go straight back to way things were.
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Well lets just give up on everybody with a problem shall we!!?
 
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