Pretty sure GF is cheating on me.
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Well she has now, right?
End it.
Ask yourself this, is that the type of girl you want a lasting relationship with?
It hurts and will hurt for a while, but you really will get over it.
, will say though:
This.
Also, post nudes. Also post them on her Facebook and tag all her friends in them.
Yep get rid of her asap. Sounds like you dont have any power or say in the relationship and this will end up being your fault.
The fact that she has been arranging her next boyfriend right in front of you is shameless. Just dump her and move on, its not worth dwelling on really. Anyone who does that is quite sad and insecure I would have thought.
I never understood people that always had to have a girlfriend or boyfriend. Just went from one to another seamlessly. Sign of an empty life where your self esteem is acquired from feeling power over someones feelings and being wanted by the opposite sex.
My auntie was like this but unfortunately it always catches up with you and one day this girl will end up with no one when she needs them most. So be happy in the knowledge that this next poor chap will just be one of a nice long list of men she has ******.
Oh and ignore the advice to take this up with the new bloke, its not worth it. It wont go well.
The fact that she has been arranging her next boyfriend right in front of you is shameless. Just dump her and move on, its not worth dwelling on really. Anyone who does that is quite sad and insecure I would have thought.
I never understood people that always had to have a girlfriend or boyfriend. Just went from one to another seamlessly. Sign of an empty life where your self esteem is acquired from feeling power over someones feelings and being wanted by the opposite sex.
My auntie was like this but unfortunately it always catches up with you and one day this girl will end up with no one when she needs them most. So be happy in the knowledge that this next poor chap will just be one of a nice long list of men she has ******.
Oh and ignore the advice to take this up with the new bloke, its not worth it. It wont go well.
Also this!
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ouch.
end it now (the relationship) and move on. she is waste paper. if you want revenge use her fb to humiliate her.
end it now (the relationship) and move on. she is waste paper. if you want revenge use her fb to humiliate her.
Well as you have found out she is still messaging him and from what I've read is still seeing him and calling you a **** behind your back you should dump her and see what she does. watch if her facebook status changes from in relationship with you to him which would just prove you made the right choice and stopped letting her treat you like ****. (insert some revenge here)
If she then reacts differently trying to get back with you then you need to think more carefully whether to take her back suspecting she has been unfaithful but showing that she still has some feelings for you otherwise would take being dumped as a blessing so she can easily go with this other guy.
You have found out more than enough to suggest she is messing you about mate I wouldn't worry about her finding out you know her facebook password she is doing much worse.
Life is short, Id put the ball in her court.
Dump her see what happens.
move on.
If she then reacts differently trying to get back with you then you need to think more carefully whether to take her back suspecting she has been unfaithful but showing that she still has some feelings for you otherwise would take being dumped as a blessing so she can easily go with this other guy.
You have found out more than enough to suggest she is messing you about mate I wouldn't worry about her finding out you know her facebook password she is doing much worse.
Life is short, Id put the ball in her court.
Dump her see what happens.
move on.
shes definately cheating on you.
But in my opinion what i would do is to not get all up tight and angry with her dont get spiteful. meet up with her come out with it hear what she has to say or what bs she has to defend herself with and then just finish saying:
' i've treated you with the upmost respect and that was all i expected it from you i didnt deserve this' say it with dignity and look her in the eyes and just leave.
she'll then think over the words and see how you treated the situation in a composed manner and think damn... i done this in one of my relationships that lasted nearly 4 years and she got in contact after just a month wanting to comeback now i'm not saying that will definately be the case but she will notice how nice you are and think wtf did i do that for.
Women always think the grasser is greener. Remember theres plenty more fish in the see but you should just go and see friends and enjoy being single i have for the past 6 months its not the be and end all.
But in my opinion what i would do is to not get all up tight and angry with her dont get spiteful. meet up with her come out with it hear what she has to say or what bs she has to defend herself with and then just finish saying:
' i've treated you with the upmost respect and that was all i expected it from you i didnt deserve this' say it with dignity and look her in the eyes and just leave.
she'll then think over the words and see how you treated the situation in a composed manner and think damn... i done this in one of my relationships that lasted nearly 4 years and she got in contact after just a month wanting to comeback now i'm not saying that will definately be the case but she will notice how nice you are and think wtf did i do that for.
Women always think the grasser is greener. Remember theres plenty more fish in the see but you should just go and see friends and enjoy being single i have for the past 6 months its not the be and end all.
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Drop her like a bad habit.
If you sit down and talk about it, you're not going to change her mind. You'll just give her an excuse to end it before you do.
If you sit down and talk about it, you're not going to change her mind. You'll just give her an excuse to end it before you do.
What? You are saying that its cold hearted to respect your partner and not line up your next lover while you are still with the current one. To have a little respect for your fellow man. Thats a bit sad if that is human nature.
How is it beneficial for him, he will either get in a fight or will come away feeling ****** than he already does because either the new bloke is a ok guy or he will just wind him up. Of course he could have a word with this other chap and he backs off and his girlfriend comes swooning back to his arms and they live happily ever after. Wait...
err what?