Pretty sure GF is cheating on me.

How did it feel thinking about her new guy doing it to her where the sun don't shine. Also how does it it feel that you are a loser and that you did not end this straight away.
 
"Love you with all my heart?"

Am I the only one disturbed by this? Who says this on the phone? :p
 
EVH said:
"Love you with all my heart?"

Am I the only one disturbed by this? Who says this on the phone? :p
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Not expecting you to have read the whole thread just to check, but no you're not the only one.

Robbie G said:
*Facepalm reflexes twitching*
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Richdog said:
I know... the OP was painfully cringeworthy to read that part was the icing on the embarassment cake.
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He waved goodbye to any male pride he may have had remaining when he said that :(.


No surprise to see [TW]Fox white knighting again. Shirley it's only a matter of time before he's admitted as the first male member of the WI :D.
 
awaybreaktoday said:
How did it feel thinking about her new guy doing it to her where the sun don't shine. Also how does it it feel that you are a loser and that you did not end this straight away.
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awaybreaktoday said:
Maybe he enjoyed it I think....
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awaybreaktoday said:
No its not, people on here need to know to man up and end things straight away. There are far too many of these threads,

EVERYONE SHOULD DO WHATS NEEDED AND STOP WASTING TIME TRYING TO EXTEND SOMETHING THAT IS FINISHED.
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What this guy failed to mention is that he has been single his whole life. ;)
 
awaybreaktoday said:
LOSERS WHO ARE SCARED TO ADMIT THEIR RELATIONSHIP IS FINISHED.
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This man/ creature has some serious issues lol. Maybe when you have been in a relationship where you love that person to death you will realise its a little harder to let them go then you wood expect. That said you did the right thing, move on and learn from this experience.
 
Hell some of you guys are painfully harsh, anyone who say's that they haven't wanted to hold on to some sort of relationship, platonic or otherwise, once it's gone bad is a dirty whopping liar...

Jeremy Vile would'nt have a show if that was true!!!

OP, I will say this though, Stay Strong but never lower yourself to being a prat by being childish towards her etc, as for steaming a close friend or family member of hers... go for it if you can, it works wonders for your self esteem. Never fall into the trap of slagging your ex of to other women as it makes you look like a ****** and makes them think you will do the same about them.... dont lie, just put a positive spin on it!


Works damn wonders!
 
get rid, not worth it, she is seeing if the grass is greener, don't give her the chance to use you as her backup!

Stelly
 
Nitrojan said:
She works with this guy. When my girlfriend and I fell out a few weeks back, I looked on her facebook a few days later and there were messages between this guy and her organising to do something together.My girlfriend was on about washing her new car and this guy was like "Well come pick me up and we'll go wash it at soandso car wash together" which I found out they did, so that was kinda like the first 'outing' together.

Then.. a few days later, she tells me she's going to the cinema with a few mates from work one evening and she wont be back till real late so im like ok.. Then I find, the next day the guy messages me on facebook explaining that he told my girlfriend that he liked her at the cinema and she apparently told him that she liked him too (whilst still with me - she could have meant as a friend I dunno? Makes me wonder if she did go with some "mates" from work, or with him by his-self) and he messaged me on facebook saying "omg im so sorry, I wouldnt have said I liked her if I had realised she was still with you", "I feel so bad man, sorry". Anyway, then he sent me some texts that she supposedly had been sending him "Come help me cook dinner, you're better than me at it :P and im on my own xx" etc. Which I confronted my girlfriend about and she denied everything saying that he made it all up.

She then said after quite a bit of talking that we should both delete him from FB and she'll tell him via text and at work what a complete **** he is trying to ruin our relationship. I believed her, so I deleted him and then when it came to her deleting him, she was reluctant to which got me wondering. She said she wanted to "have a word with him" first about what he had nearly done. So I left it.

I logged onto her fb this morning and there's messages between them.. and to cut a long story short he says "So, are we together? xx" and my girlfriend says "I dunno babe, although Adam is a **** I dont wanna rub it in his face. Lets take it slow and see how it goes. :) xx" which really ****ed me off after what she had been saying. She even suggested going out for a meal on Friday to 'sort our relationship out' and she meant it in a good way. I looked on the guys profile and it said "Had a great time with INSERTMYGIRLFRIENDHERE yesterday (Saturday)" which got me even more annoyed.

I rang my girlfriend just now and acted normal and she said "im at work, ring me back later" so I was like "ok, I love you with all my heart" and her response was "ok, bye".. I was like "Dont you love me too?" she said.. "I dunno, bye" and I just said "bye". Makes me wonder if this guy was there too and that was the reason she didnt want to tell me she "Loved me". :/

Cruel world. Especially when it's your first real relationship.
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I feel for you mate, especially when the other half falls out of love with you and you are kind of screwed over like that. I personally would have pretended to be her and arranged to me him. I would then beat the crap out of him and threaten to cut his balls off if he didn't leave her alone.
 
CaptainRAVE said:
I feel for you mate, especially when the other half falls out of love with you and you are kind of screwed over like that. I personally would have pretended to be her and arranged to me him. I would then beat the crap out of him and threaten to cut his balls off if he didn't leave her alone.
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In an ideal world we could do that, but I don't think you'll be getting away with it somehow. :p
 
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