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Why do people do this? It's really gay
.Pretty sure GF is cheating on me.
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Why do people do this? It's really gay
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She has either cheated on you or she is planning to/going to. Either way dump her and move on, she did it once so in the right circumstances she WILL do it again.
Why do people do this? It's really gay
I agree :/
She came round this morning crying her eyes out.. said she had been to the cemetery before coming to mine to see my mum, said she talked to her about trying to make me see that I was taking it the wrong way and that she meant 'take it slow and see how things go' as a friendship to the other guy as she has to work with him and doesn't like holding grudges. I genuinely felt really bad.. but I guess that's just because I hate to see people upset. She showed me a photo album that I made her for valentines with all our special pictures with tears in here eyes telling me of all the good times we had.
Man she knows how to get at my emotions
Regardless, I told her I never want to see her again or hear of her and told her to go. Which she did.. crying.
Man she knows how to get at my emotions
Regardless, I told her I never want to see her again or hear of her and told her to go. Which she did.. crying.
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Ahh mate... if she comes crying to you. again...
I duno what to say bruv...maybe she did do something she doesnt wanna admit n what not but she really realises now what eh messed up in which case still you should not take her back she needs to learn a lesson.
I dont think you can missunderstand all the stuff on her wall though.
If you did then ugh you cant really be sure because it was all to the point and it really did make it look like she was cheating...
Yaah -_- she actualy droped those lines to you? I feel for you bro.
I duno what to say bruv...maybe she did do something she doesnt wanna admit n what not but she really realises now what eh messed up in which case still you should not take her back she needs to learn a lesson.
I dont think you can missunderstand all the stuff on her wall though.
If you did then ugh you cant really be sure because it was all to the point and it really did make it look like she was cheating...
Yaah -_- she actualy droped those lines to you?
I feel for you bro.Ahh mate... if she comes crying to you. again...
I duno what to say bruv...maybe she did do something she doesnt wanna admit n what not but she really realises now what eh messed up in which case still you should not take her back she needs to learn a lesson.
I dont think you can missunderstand all the stuff on her wall though.
If you did then ugh you cant really be sure because it was all to the point and it really did make it look like she was cheating...
Yaah -_- she actualy droped those lines to you?
Advice from 'DA STREEZ' breh.
My first comment in this thread but i've read it all, well done for doing the right thing. Her statement above doesn't make sense. Has anyone ever said 'take it slow and see how things go' in reference to a friendship/working relationship with a colleague? No. She's either slept with him or will do.
Stand your ground.
She came round this morning crying her eyes out.. said she had been to the cemetery before coming to mine to see my mum, said she talked to her about trying to make me see that I was taking it the wrong way and that she meant 'take it slow and see how things go' as a friendship to the other guy as she has to work with him and doesn't like holding grudges. I genuinely felt really bad.. but I guess that's just because I hate to see people upset. She showed me a photo album that I made her for valentines with all our special pictures with tears in here eyes telling me of all the good times we had.
Man she knows how to get at my emotions
Regardless, I told her I never want to see her again or hear of her and told her to go. Which she did.. crying.
are you 100% sure she was cheating ?
Regardless, I told her I never want to see her again or hear of her and told her to go. Which she did.. crying.
Good. Don't allow her to manipulate you.
The fact she's been saying what she has about him to another guy she was spending plenty of time with, is just cause anyway.
I wouldn't want to be with a partner that had so little respect for me.
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Next time she comes round for a cry, take her inside and then 'take her inside'. Once you have done clean her up and kick her out.
<clicks fingers>you need to kick her to the kerb<click fingers some more whilst in a downward motion>
<clicks fingers>you need to kick her to the kerb<click fingers some more whilst in a downward motion>
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Bit of a no brainer as to what you should do really.
She came round this morning crying her eyes out.. said she had been to the cemetery before coming to mine to see my mum, said she talked to her about trying to make me see that I was taking it the wrong way and that she meant 'take it slow and see how things go' as a friendship to the other guy as she has to work with him and doesn't like holding grudges. I genuinely felt really bad.. but I guess that's just because I hate to see people upset. She showed me a photo album that I made her for valentines with all our special pictures with tears in here eyes telling me of all the good times we had.
Man she knows how to get at my emotions
Regardless, I told her I never want to see her again or hear of her and told her to go. Which she did.. crying.
Reading this again, the part in bold just doesn't make sense.
How do you justify the "I dunno babe, [...] I dont wanna to rub it in his face." remark?
She's grasping at straws.
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To be honest what Janesy B said......
Remember that n tell her to explain it.
Even if she does there is no way you can accidently miss read that.
Its blatent.
Remember that n tell her to explain it.
Even if she does there is no way you can accidently miss read that.
Its blatent.
I would be offended if an ex told me that thinking I'd fall for it
Aye, prolly had more meat in her than a butchers shop.