A bit of drama as usual on a Monday

dante6491 said:
Why the **** does anybody ever borrow money for someone who is, by what you have told us, a grade A bell? How stupid are the general population. Yes OP that is a dig at you. I'm 19 and have been best mates with someone for 15 years, like hell I would lend them money though.
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I tend to only be friends with people I trust so would/have lent money happily to friends - always knowing I'll get it back. If you trust your friends that little then there is a problem.
 
Robboftw said:
Hey, you are the one getting beaten up 'randomly in the supermarket by your best mate'.

And you call other people stupid? Jeez.

I would like to reiterate what other people have said, you sound like a couple of ****** to me, and you aren't telling us the full story anyway.
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Oh yeah I forgot to tell you the part, where I slept with his dad, ****ed on his dead family and god knows what else.
 
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ChrisJSY said:
OCUK Forums, the place where some prats can justify getting beat up by your best friend by calling him by his nickname. Violence in these cases is never right, it's pathetic.
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I do rather wonder why he kicked off... The OP suggests that it's his nickname, not that he was taunting him per se.

Maybe the story just isn't very clear.
 
James J said:
So you continuously provoked someone and got beat up for it, big shocker there. The drugs part is over the line though and for that I'd inform the police if you have proof of it.
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Must agree with this.

Got your butt kicked for winding up a druggy, go figure!
 
PraxxtorCruel said:
Well, I went shopping with my best friend who just came from abroad about 2 weeks ago, well we where at Asda picking some food, anyways I call him this nickname a few times whilst we are going around which is 'dimpo'. He didn't react to it or anything so I just left it, about 10 minutes later we go to queue at the checkouts, I look the other direction (not facing him) and just mumbling 'dimpo' twice not actually remarking him, it just for some reason popped to my mind. That's when he slammed me across the face, pushed me to onto a shelf, not being able to do nothing as was holding my wallet in one hand and the jacket on the other, fell onto my knees, kicked my balls as hard as he could, ran a few steps away, came back and spat me in my face and then ran outside. I got up, walked out and just got into my car and drove of.

The same night, I find out from my sister that he had asked her to get some ecstasy pills for him. I have known him for 16 years.

Now we are usually always calling each other nicknames etc. I was just so shocked, I couldn't even react.

His been living at my place for the time being and I have been lending him a lot of money and I have his suitcase.

What would you guys do in my situation? Amend?
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Sounds to me (I have not read other reply's) he is on drugs so u have two options

1.try to talk to him and get him professional help if that is the case

2.talk to him and see wtf his problem was.

TBH I would worry if I had some mate etc asking a loved member of my family to get drugs.
 
doesnt sound like you were out of order, or even close (though i don't know what a dimpo is) ... me and my mates always have this kind of banter... if he wasnt in the mood, he could have simply said "i'm not in the mood"... you've been friends for a long time, but friends do come and go, ive had a fair few "best friends" and sometimes you just drift apart, and sometimes you have a big fall out.... but violence like this is very strange... 16 years(?) is a long time to have a best mate.... kicking him out is up to you... if you reconed he's messed up in the head try and get him help, it sucks to lose a best friend, but odly enough this could be fixed if you want it to..



but remember he's not just crossed the line, he's ****ed all over it.. ( i agree with the family thing aswell).. if hes willing to admit he was well out of line, and he needs help you can go somewhere with this...
 
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Enough advice WHAT HAVE YOU ACTUALLY DONE to deal with the situation?

Sounds like you've ignored it and carried on as if nothing happened. If so, expect him to beat the hell out of you at some point in the future. Also note you will NEVER get your money back, he'll just beat you up when you ask for it.

Sometimes in life you must cut people loose when you realise they are only dragging you down/aren't a real friend.
 
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