Would you risk a friendship for a relationship?

Never. A friendship can last a lifetime, a relationship a fraction of that. And if you can't rekindle that friendship if it all goes wrong you will feel a lot of pain of that loss.
 
PapaLazaru said:
She was fully naked. Happened a few times. She has got THE most amazing tatties as well. :D

I am glad two of you have said yes as some of my other lady friends that don't know her all said he wants more.

Just need to find the right time to talk to her I have got a lot of things I want to tell her. :)
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go for it then matey :) I take it you find her sexually attractive :) and you have never met anyone like her?

Make it the first thing you do tomorrow, dont wait any longer :)
 
Well i had a mate of 5yrs who met a girl called Helen about 2yrs they were together.

They were going through a rough patch and broke up so i jumped in and ofc lost a friend in the process but gained another. Been with Helen for 6yrs in Jan
 
Life's too short for female friendships, bone the *****.








:D

Also, coming from a guy who openly admits to 'going on the pull' every other night and generally being a bit wild, I'm surprised you had to ask.
 
MiNxYyY said:
go for it then matey :) I take it you find her sexually attractive :) and you have never met anyone like her?

Make it the first thing you do tomorrow, dont wait any longer :)
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She is beautiful. Inside and out. Never met anybody that comes close tbh.

I have known her for a long time though, seriously long time. I would say going on 18 years. That is my only fear.

I know she fancied me in the past as well but that was ages ago, when we were still kids drinking on the park.

But like I have stated, we have shared beds a few times and bizarrely enough, I did walk back hom from the pub with her naked once. I have no idea how that happened. Just as well we were both living in the sticks at the time so nobody saw. :D
 
Life's too short to be contemplating what ifs. Although that's what I belief, almost unequivocally, I don't think that I would be able to bring myself to put a friendship of some five plus years on the line. :o
 
Sure, why not. There is no exact science to relationships. What does or doesn't work for someone else doesn't translate for you. We're all different. Just be aware that the wager is your friendship, if you're happy with your odds then go for it.
 
I must say after reading this thread I am hugely disappointed, my reasons are thus:

1) OP posted another women thread, fair enough.
2) OP has audacity to actually reply and read the advice given.
3) OP has the gaul to do something about it IRL!
4) OP decides, as if the above isn't enough, to actually update his own thread with reports of success and offer advice to forum members in similar situations.

I don't know who you are OP, where you live or what you do, but you don't belong on OcUK :p

(In all seriousness well played).
 
i was in the same situation, i took the risk, was with the girls for several months.
things didn't work out however, but we're still just as good friends. i'd suggest going for it, you only live the once...
 
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