Women and there reasons for breaking up with you

Their reasons for breaking up are always the same:

they've had their head turned by someone else.


Sorry to hear about your situation OP.



Happened to me. Had her head turned by someone else's BS, knew him for all of a week before breaking up for standard BS-woman reasons, and then realised he was an a-hole who just wanted to shag everyone new in the office. Hah.


Or they break up with you because their family/ friends don't approve of you.
 
I think the best thing to do in this situation is give her the space she needs and has asked for. Don't go texting her every 5 minutes, don't call her, etc. It will be hard as nails but you have to do it.

Start preparing yourself mentally for the fact that you might not get back together. As it is a possible outcome, start seeing friends who aren't too associated with her and go out with the lads, keep yourself busy.

Two possible outcomes will arise from this:

1) She realises in a few weeks/months that she does miss you like crazy and she will approach you, at which point in time you make the decision to get back or not.

2) You go your seperate ways, but at least you won't be strung out for the few weeks/months whilst she makes up her mind.

I am aware that women in this situation before have been known to use their Ex as an "emotional crutch". Essentially use you if she feels lonely once in a while, maybe for sex, for attention, whatever - whilst all the while not interested in continuing a serious relationship. Do not allow this to happen. Being strung along is the worst thing that can happen to you.

Have a serious chat with her, try and be as truthful as possible. Then do as she asks and start trying to move on. It won't be easy but it will be the best thing for you in the long run.

Good luck mate.
 
I never understand these situations where "her" friends become my friends and "my" friends become hers, i have a couple of close friends who will always side with me, and i will always side with them, that feels much healthier... not having anybody to talk too in person must be terrible.. But i am not discounting the value of talking on here, apart from the people who are saying what you are thinking anyway it helps to evaluate it a bit.
 
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Don't bother discussing anything more with her. Get your ring back, give her her stuff back, and tell her to **** right off.

DO NOT LET HER STRING YOU ALONG ANYMORE WITH ALL THE "I'M SO SORRY" BULL****.

That's what they do - they get the hooks into your heart, rip it up and then lead you on forever with endless meaningless complements about how fantastic you really are, how much they love you (but don't LOVE you) etc. etc.

It's over. Just get out there and clear your head, away from her.
 
Dude
Girls can be so mean :/

Sorry to hear it man! Hold your head high and get out with some mates and party like its 1999 :P
 
Time to get over it. This is done as follows:-

  • Watch a repeat of the Sunday, 12 September 2010 Super League game between Wigan and Leeds which was an absolute classic.
  • Listen to 'Poison' by 'The Prodigy'
  • Eat Nandos

Then go spend your energy chasing someone else.

*Actually 'No Good' by 'The Prodigy' may be a better bet.
 
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My wife when she left me said i was difficult to live with

When pressed as to what she meant she said it was because i always paid the bills and did the food shop :confused:

Women :rolleyes:
 
Sorry to hear that OP.

It's one or more of the following, in order of probability:

- She met someone
- She just doesn't like you enough to marry you
- She wants to go back to the veld

Follow Tefal's advice about the ring. Even if it seems like now you don't want it, in a few months the financial loss will be the greatest niggle!
 
Sorry to hear that but it does sound terminal.

She may not have cheated but I don't think it makes a lot of difference to the outcome.

Whatever you do don't act like a lost puppy. Hold your head up and be strong or at least pretend to be when she's around. It will hurt but not forever.
 
Don't wanna sound harsh OP but to me it sounds like she had a taste of the single life again while out on Holiday with her family and while she may not have cheated she has obviously gotten something from that experience she now feel's she is lacking in her life.

To me at'least it sounds like a strong case of the holiday blues and without wanting to sound patronising women can be quite irrational about stuff at the best of times... If I was you and I really cared for her I'd be looking for a way to make her feel special but without putting pressure on her!

For me taking my fiancee out to a fancy resteraunt preferably something Itallian and getting a good bottle of wine has the desired effect of making her feel special, though splashing some cash elsewhere on her to get new clothes also helps...

What does she really enjoy in life? For example horse riding, maybe arrange for her to do what she enjoys doing and give her the option to go with you or someone else!!!

Hope this helps OP, I've been there and it sucks!
 
Most of my Doris sack me, Can't think why. :confused: + :D

I've only read the OP but it sounds to me like somebody else is giving your Doris more attention than you, I don't mean riding her either just attention.
Grass looks greener & all that.

As for me I prefer it when my Doris sack me as there's none of that Guilt for taking the ****. :p:p:p
 
Move on, go out get smashed and shack up with someone else. Its over the sooner you realise it the better for you.
 
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Don't wanna sound harsh OP but to me it sounds like she had a taste of the single life again while out on Holiday with her family and while she may not have cheated she has obviously gotten something from that experience she now feel's she is lacking in her life.

To me at'least it sounds like a strong case of the holiday blues and without wanting to sound patronising women can be quite irrational about stuff at the best of times... If I was you and I really cared for her I'd be looking for a way to make her feel special but without putting pressure on her!
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+1, but they all have the same BS reasons so your not the only one
 
trentlad said:
Oh please do shut up!

Sometimes there is no where else to turn or you don't want to contaminate your personal relationships with these questions. Who knows, there may even be someone who replies that went through a similar thing. It's simply a question open to opinion to help the OP think about things or maybe consider issues/solutions that he may have not realised.

But thanks for your comment Mr Black&White.
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Sure but are there not specific relationship forums for this kind of stuff ?

Most people that post relationship problem threads here mostly get laughed at .

Sometimes you have to figure things out for yourself.;)
 
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