was i justified in what i said?

Soldato
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last night i went to my home town and saw a girl (well, woman) who i hadn't seen since 2001. she has been married and divorced, has 2 kids from her first marriage and a 3rd kid from another fella who is no longer with her. i said hello and we got chatting, she then said (in quite a cutting way) oh, you're single at 30 then, why haven't you got a girlfriend. i then proceeded to say i didn't want one, and have fun living the single life. she seemed to think that as i'm 30 that this was a bit weird and did start giving me a bit of grief about it. i then came out with the comment of something along the lines of ''just cos you've screwed your life up in your 20's and then again in your 30's, don't come having a go at me''. she then started to cry, her 2 friends started calling me some quite nasty names and the fella of one of her mates offered me outside to which i told him o grow up (i later found out he was in his 40's). i did and still do feel bad about her crying but what was i supposed to do? listen to her drill me. i suppose really i should have walked away but i felt i had a right to say what i did, so i did!
 
I think it would help us decide if you were justified in totally laying the smack-down on her life if you gave some quotes of the grief she was giving you about being single.

Quotes!
 
She was trying to pull you, you punched her in the emotion gland. Whether you were right or not can only be gauged by knowing how fit she was.
 
Excellent. The first post on this subject matter where the OP has balls.

Thank you OP. I didn't lose man points reading this thread like I did with certain recent ones.

You were justified and showed that you are a man.

Son, I am not disappoint :D
 
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