gf broke up with me, how do i get the pain away ?

DF1986 said:
she wrote me a break up email
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Classy.

Anyway does anyone know anything that i can do to lessen the pain, its like a huge hollow in my chest and my stomach, head and overall body just feels so weak, any tips from you guys would be greatly appreciated.
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Yeah, it does that. Time will heal all though. Just try and keep your chin up, get drunk with your mates and don't wallow in it and act like a twonk too much, and you'll be fine soon enough.

If at all possible dip your wick in someone; nothing quite like it for getting over someone.
 
I may be a bit late in this thread, but one thing always tends to work.

Pop down the shop, look in the drinks section and find a bottle of Man the eff up.
 
Sorry to hear that bud. Just be grateful that she didn't just tell you she was interested in women to try and break up with you!

After being on the receiving end of similiar breakups i'd suggest get your mates round you for support have a few drinks and try and have a laugh, dwelling on it certainly won't help you.

Try and keep yourself occupied and it will get better over time. mates are the most important things in times like this, you certainly find out who the good ones are!

Best of Luck
 
We've all been here fella, it aint easy and I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

Whatever you do, if you want her back DO NOT contact her. She will be feeling pretty crappy too, and if you run back to her she knows she's got uyou on a piece of string. Delete her number and ignore her for a couple of weeks. She will eventually come running back. At this point don't, she's only come back to make sure she can still have you and that you haven't moved on.

User her coming back a new found confidence and get out there and meet someone new. My last big breakup involved money, mortgage, posessions, etc. It's not a nice experience so I know this awkward feeling you have inside.

Chin up fella, she wasn't meant to be the one. Take up a new hobby and do the things you enjoy. New wardrobe time as well ;)
 
In all seriousness, Booze+mates+porn+gaming+(insert other vises here) it will work wonders over time and help you get rid of that feeling.

Do NOT sit alone and try to work it out in your head, you'll tie yourself in knots and convince yourself of stupid ways of getting her back which wont work and just make you feel worse.

good luck fella:)
 
Turn gay and try your hardest to bed her dad. That should take the pain away....Even though you might fell a little stabbing pain
 
The only immediate cure is on bagging a new g/f.. Focus on that by going out.. The only other cure is time..

DO NOT call her.. As someone has said, she may even end up coming back to you. BUT only if you do not call her. Chase her around and you'll lower yourself. Be prepared that she may never call you back though & continue to focus on meeting someone else.

Happens to all guys, most if not all of 1st relationships are ended by the woman. Just part of growing up and being a young guy.. Yeah it hurts A LOT at the time, but you'll laugh at this down the road, even sooner if you can meet a new g/f. Actually you'll probably laugh at yourself for being so pathetic over a woman.. When my 1st ever g/f dumped my ass when i was an annoying teen with braces , i cried like a baby for the night.. LOL ugh how embarrasing. As I said all part of growing up mate !
 
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When my relationships end, i simply put it to the back of my mind, go out, and get someone else.

Although i dont get emotionally attatched to women.
 
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