You ruined the gameWhat if I'm an undead squirrel pirate, Jack Sparrow style!
Tbh I'm not even sure that's a squirrel!
.gf broke up with me, how do i get the pain away ?
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Am I right in thinking you posted earlier this week about whether you should wait around for some girlie who didn't want a relationship? That doesn't exactly reek of staying unattached from women.
OP, get yourself out there with your mates. I have spent more time in the pub (drinking coke) in the last couple of weeks than I have in several months.
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So essentially you see woman as a human fleshlight
Am I right in thinking you posted earlier this week about whether you should wait around for some girlie who didn't want a relationship? That doesn't exactly reek of staying unattached from women.
OP, get yourself out there with your mates. I have spent more time in the pub (drinking coke) in the last couple of weeks than I have in several months.
She was an exception, just like i said in that post
She was an exception, just like i said in that post
So essentially you see woman as a human fleshlight
So essentially you see woman as a human fleshlight
Its not just that.
If i dont get emotionally attatched, then theres no pain when it ends.
i just smply get someone else.
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But thats the same in nearly all the posts on here.
[TW]Fox;17522170 said:That is actually really, really sad
You've clearly never found the right one.
I know it is.
but not getting emotionally attatched is easier than dealing with the heartache of breaking up with someone you do get attatched to.
Or a Fleshlight
. MiNxYyY thats no way to live, you need to gamble now again to experiance being in love! Not all woman are twisted.Or a Fleshlight
Sorry I have never heard the expression fleshlight before.
I can understand why you feel that way MinxYyY but I think sooner or later someone will surprise you and you'll find yourself attached. I hope so anyway.
Sorry I have never heard the expression fleshlight before.
I can understand why you feel that way MinxYyY but I think sooner or later someone will surprise you and you'll find yourself attached. I hope so anyway.
Im sure i will too
But even if i do find 'the one' il always keep it distant in my head so that if things turn bad, il get on ok knowing that i was never attatched to her 100%.
What about the nagging doubt that things turned bad BECAUSE you were never 100% attached with her? For most of us the fact we are so attached to them we cannot imagine life without them is exactly why we enjoy being with them so much..
Im sure i will too
But even if i do find 'the one' il always keep it distant in my head so that if things turn bad, il get on ok knowing that i was never attatched to her 100%.
Problem with that is, if you find someone that you think might be the one, you're not going to be able to keep yourself distant no matter how hard you try. If by some amazing reason you do, as soon as she realises, and she will, she will most likely leave and you may be left with a huge feeling of guilt and regret which will be far, far worse than the feeling of loss knowing that you gave it your all.
That is also another reason why i dont get attatched to women, i never have to have those feelings if it goes bad.
To put it simply, i will care for a women with all my heart, treat her right etc . . but when it comes to caring emotionally, this is were i will start to care less, to avoid the heartache.
I know this is a sad way to be, and i hope in the future i can control and overcome it, but for the time being, il stick to the way i am as its just easier.
My point was, you're not going to have much say in the matter if she's 'the one'. You *will* get emotionally involved whether you like it or not.
