gf broke up with me, how do i get the pain away ?

The only way to get over an ex..... as much pasty smashing as possible! With any female willing even ugmo's and fatties, they love the attention and often do more durrrrrrrrty things!
 
Wait ...hang on...arent you the person who posted a couple of months ago saying that you thought your gf was cheating on you?

EDIT : Ah yeah..thought I recognised the name, here it was http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showthread.php?t=18170313

2 months ago you thought she was cheating on you, now she dumps you, are you sure she wasnt cheating? Or did your paranoia that she might be get to the stage where you stifled her?
 
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singist said:
Dear God! the juvenile crap here is appalling.

Some of the replies need reporting to a moderator.

Grow the **** up kiddies! If you can't be of genuine assistance without posting peurile comments, don't post!
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Im an athiest tbh :rolleyes:

Plus im no kiddie im 90 years old 14 foot tall and made of chocolate!

As for the op this thread should help overall :p
 
DF1986 said:
*Warning quite long*

Ok so my gf rang me up on monday morning and told me to check my emails and then hung up, she wrote me a break up email * 1 year and 2 months together*and although i tried it was impossible to ring her as she just hung up, she split up with me as she said she wanted freedom to do what she wanted although i never told her what to do.

We hardly ever argued, we got along so well, everyone said we looked fantastic together and then this came out of the blue, i know for a fact that there isnt another man in the picture and i do know all her girlyfriends hated me and her being together as they couldnt have girly nights anymore and she listens to what ever her friends tell her.

Anyway does anyone know anything that i can do to lessen the pain, its like a huge hollow in my chest and my stomach, head and overall body just feels so weak, any tips from you guys would be greatly appreciated.
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DF1986 said:
So as the title says, she might be cheating.
I get this very funny feeling that she is because shes become distant, everything from normal stuff right to the bedroom, she goes out on girly nights dolled up and i mean dolled, shortest possible skirt, leggings so you can see everything she was born with, very high heel shoes, makeup to the hilt and when i say "can i come along" she just says "its a girly evening", right girly evening going out dressed like that, more like man hunt evening.
I mean im far from a bad boyfriend, i treat her like a lady, respect her boudries etc etc... buy her gifts, she makes an effort to look good so i started going to the gym just over a year ago to get a hot bod *coming along very nicely BTW* but i get the feeling that shes not all that faithful :(

Anyone got any advice on this type of stuff, i would really appreciate it.
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singist said:
Dear God! the juvenile crap here is appalling.

Some of the replies need reporting to a moderator.

Grow the **** up kiddies! If you can't be of genuine assistance without posting peurile comments, don't post!
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What an helpful post, I'm sure that sound relationship advice will help the op.
 
Unfortunately there's nothing much you can do, no quick way :( I know how it feels and all I can say is it takes time but you will get to a point where it doesn't hurt anymore.

Just keep yourself busy with things you like doing to try and take your mind off of it. See friends etc.

When the time is right you will meet someone new who will make you happy. From the brief info you've given I think personally you are better off without. It may not feel like that right now but again in time you will.

Chin up and hope you feel better about things soon :)
 
Relying on others to make you happy is never a good thing. Sounds crass but man up and do some of the things you've wanted to do, I bet there's stuff she'll have held you back on.

When this happened to me I did stuff I wanted to do, including a few things which just so happened to be things that made her jealous (seeing more attractive women and getting fit). Made me feel good about myself and filled a gap.

PS women in this position hate seeing a weak/crying/needy man, so if you see her for whatever reason, put on your brave face and act like everything's fine! :D

Good luck!
 
bloodiedathame said:
Relying on others to make you happy is never a good thing. Sounds crass but man up and do some of the things you've wanted to do, I bet there's stuff she'll have held you back on.

When this happened to me I did stuff I wanted to do, including a few things which just so happened to be things that made her jealous (seeing more attractive women and getting fit). Made me feel good about myself and filled a gap.

PS women in this position hate seeing a weak/crying/needy man, so if you see her for whatever reason, put on your brave face and act like everything's fine! :D

Good luck!
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Extending on this.. If you are too soppy towards a woman and buy her gifts / flowers and all that crap & keep telling her you love her and need her, she'll also see you as a needy man and she'll crap on you, just like what's happened to the OP.. I learned that with my 1st g/f when i was 17, foolishly thinking that's what women wanted... After that relationship, i always played it cool and even became cocky towards whatever g/f i was with, It kept the girl guessing as to if i was in love or not even when i was madly in love at times and found that all the guessing on her behalf made the woman fall in love more.. Most relationships eventually end one way of another, so you may aswell build some defences by being a bit cocky about it, maybe always have another girl on tap if need be. Eventually you'll find the right one with a bit of maturity behind you, you can give up on all the games and settle down and start a family.
 
[TW]Fox;17521991 said:
One day you'll really wish you did. I can't imagine not - how crap life would be without it :confused:
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Personally, I can't stand it.
Become attached, to me is a weakness, I know it isn't to other people but I feel better off without it. In the end it's not what other people say, it's what makes you happy.

I just can't deal with being around someone so much either, then again having the last two be incredibly clingy further pushed me towards it :P
 
you'll be ok mate. I've been in the same situation. I was with my ex for ten years and have a kid. She cheated on me and like a mug, stayed with her. In the end she dumped me and the pain was unbearable. I couldn't eat, sleep and kept thinking of her all the time.

6 months on and i'm having the time of my life. I'm out every friday, having fun with the ladies and i get to see my daughter 4 nights a week. So take it from me, no matter how much pain your in, it does get better.
 
benneh said:
Pro-tip; she's got a new feller, and she wishes to sleep with many more. You are a cast iron anchor, sinking to the bottom of the ocean.

With that said, I suggest you get wasted, and go find yourself a rebound. You'll feel much better in a week or so.
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DF1986 said:
So as the title says, she might be cheating.
I get this very funny feeling that she is because shes become distant, everything from normal stuff right to the bedroom, she goes out on girly nights dolled up and i mean dolled, shortest possible skirt, leggings so you can see everything she was born with, very high heel shoes, makeup to the hilt and when i say "can i come along" she just says "its a girly evening", right girly evening going out dressed like that, more like man hunt evening.
I mean im far from a bad boyfriend, i treat her like a lady, respect her boudries etc etc... buy her gifts, she makes an effort to look good so i started going to the gym just over a year ago to get a hot bod *coming along very nicely BTW* but i get the feeling that shes not all that faithful :(

Anyone got any advice on this type of stuff, i would really appreciate it.
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From the above it sounds like she never wanted to be or just wasn't cut out to be faithful - consider the break up a blessing before you wasted more time on her! :)
 
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