The thing I've found over my life is that taking drugs has changed a good few of my friends. I'm not saying physically, but on a psychological level. It's not so much the drugs but the attitude that some people who take drugs suddenly adopt. Suddenly friends that would go out and mountain bike till it got dark, would sit back on the sofa and smoke there money and time away.
The fact that people are looking down on people and "pitying" them for not taking drugs is absurd. It's just a different choice in life. I don't pity others around me because they earn less than me, because that's what they chose to do. Different isn't something to pity ,those that have suffered misfortunes are those that deserve pity.
I also think that you learn and develop from the things you don't do in life as well as those you do. Quite frankly I think not taking drugs has by far been the harder path in life for me and I feel it's developed me as a person. So I don't think I'm ignorant, I've just invested my development of life experiences in other ways.
It's an inherently sensible post you've made here, so I'll freely admit that my tendency toward vitriolic denouncement of those who hold differing opinions to my own have jumped ahead of my inclination to withhold judgement, and moreso it's made me really consider my outlook, so you have my respect in that regard, as well. However, I still feel compelled to say that I disagree.
Of course, I would never argue that taking drugs doesn't change a person right down to the core of who they are - that would undermine my views much more than you. At the same time, I've noticed that people coming in to the drugs scene from a relatively innocent (in this sense ignorant, but hampered by negative connotations that I do not intend at all - ignorance is simply a state of not knowing, and I don't believe there's a shameful side to it, unless a person revels in it [much like drugs... but that's another story]) background
do tend to lose interest in many pursuits that clasically constitute a healthy lifestyle - exercise and active hobbies, a change in diet, sometimes a complete loss of enthusiasm for paths they've pursued for the better part of a lifetime - I've known doctors (ok, one doctor) with nearly 35 years of experience in the field quit his job and take up child minding after his first experience with LSD, and several others across a wide age range that have changed everything from their GCSE course choices to their career path after experimenting. From that point I'd argue that while you
do learn from the things you don't do, you learn much, much more from the things you
do do - whether they turned out to be right or wrong, respective of each person's ultimate decision. At least 3 of the above subjects I can name as having an adverse reaction to drugs, and they still ended up blissfully happy at their lives, even after changing their path.
Ultimately, it boils down to the creed that only by experiencing something can you truly come to understand it and its implications to your life. It's the eternal dichotomy of anthropologists - to gain a true understanding of a foreign culture you just immerse yourself in it, but by doing so you lose all hope of objective analysis. I've never had any inclination to tempt people toward my point of view, one I believe can only be truly understood through participation, but I've no qualms about objecting to what I perceive as blanket assertation borne of ignorance - something I'll freely admit I'm prone to finding where it doesn't exist. I guess my point is that while I understand the principles of learning as much by
not doing as by doing, I disagree with it wholeheartedly.
Edit: God ****ing damn, using big words makes me feel superior.
Edit 2: Actually, they make me feel supercilious. Go figure.