..............A couple of friends who are mega-athiest and very verbal about how stupid religeous people are got married in the church 'for the nice pictures and because I've always wanted to walk down the church aisle' so did all the 'kneeling in front of god' etc.
That's a bit low if you ask me ..
I am an agnostic atheist but was married in church. I wanted to be married, my wife wanted to be married and specifically in church. Given my position on the subject I was totally indifferent as to where and what was said, the important thing to me was making the commitment. It mattered to her that it was in church so would have been obstructive of me to insist upon a different venue. I was honest with the vicar who understood my point of view.
As to the question at hand I have softened a lot as I have grown older. I used to want to argue on the matter but don't feel the need (to the same degree) anymore. If I am completely honest I probably do assume religious people are less intellectually rigorous and / or more inclined to pull the wool over their own eyes. People for the most part are not comfortable with the grey areas and like to plug the gaps - good luck to them I suppose.