the friend who has now split up with his gf

cm1179 said:
saw him this afternoon. it's not that he doesn't want to be friends, missus or not, it's that he didn't realise that his actions have taken him out of the loop and he made no attempt to get back into whilst he was in a relationship. contact was minimal but now he wants to get 'back in with the lads'. i know what'll happen, he'll get back with her or meet another girl and it will repeat or he might realise maybe he needs a bit of no commitment fun as he's got years ahead of him to be tied down!
i would never do this to a friend, i think a lot of people don't realise they are doing it because they are so caught up in things.
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So next time be a friend and tell him when it starts.
 
Friends appreciate people being open and honest, stop dropping hints and tell him he's being a arse :p
 
cm1179 said:
lol there's only so many hints a person can drop!
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Then if it's important to you just flat out say to him that he's not being a good mate by losing contact - you've already said he appeared not to realise how his actions were viewed by you so tell him. There's no need for hints here, subtle or otherwise - if he's a good friend then you make the effort to let him know and he should understand why you're doing it, if he doesn't or the friendship isn't worth that bit of effort then no great loss either way.
 
If you all learn from it and your friendship becomes stronger then it may have been a good thing :)
 
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