Breaking up with my girlfriend!

thevet said:
sounds to me like you wanted your cake and you wanted to it......go play about for a bit..in time you will realise when you want to settle down...your only 23..your still very young...when i was 23 i used to get my trouser zip serviced once per month:) jk
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Why? Was it broken?

The zip on my coat is a bit funny but my trousers are fine.













:)
 
I hope since the split you have been running the single life ragged? Out with mates, doing what you want, etc, etc?

Missing her is going to be natural as you are so used to having her around. If you are out doing things and keeping busy it shouldn't be as noticable! Also moving location and living with your mum again will give you a new different perspective on things again, I'm sure!

You still haven't added me to steam friends either yet, you punk!
 
you only lost your dad a while back, so prob stuff still happening with that mate, you might have deal with that, and being with your mum on a short term basis will be a good think i think.
 
Lysander said:
I wouldn't agree with this. Sometimes you have to break up with someone in spite of the fact that you love them.

Being in love is not enough to make a relationship work. You can be in love but both have very different outlooks on life - you can also be in love with someone who's abusive.
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I don't normally come into these threads, and only done so through boredom.

But I think there is a lot to be said for that comment Lysander.

As sad as it may be. :)
 
If I have learnt ANYTHING from the past 5 years... it's that you should NOT move in with your woman until at least having been together for a solid year, preferably 2.

Sorry to hear it chap, but I know what it's like, my fiancee who I lived with and I split up mid last year. Things do get better though. Hell, she's even one of my best friends at the moment :)
 
I'm normally quite a good judge or person by the way they look, and she is very nice looking, but the feeling I get from looking at pics of her is there isnt any-one in her life thats ever going to keep her, the Paris thing tells me im correct. She'll always be a "free bird" moving on from one thing to the next.

Times are hard, just think of the sea and all the fish in it ;) If you can keep a nice gal like that for 2 years skys your limit!
 
ScarySquirrel said:
There has been the odd row in there but for the most part they were good chats.
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Hate to say it but if you think only having the odd row in a three week period is good, you're doing the right thing.

My wife and I have the odd row once or twice a year. I would imagine most 'happy' marriages are probably something similar. If a couple are constantly arguing, they must not be happy together.
 
Major thread bump. I was just searching for a thread a created a while ago (not there any more it seems) and came across this thread. Thought I'd post an update for a laugh.

- We broke up.
- She moved out.
- Post breakup 'stuff' happened a couple of times
- She started seeing someone else that I knew (she worked with him, but he started after I left)
- I started seeing someone
- She moved to Paris with him, we met up for a drink before she went and had a nice friendly chat
- We email occasionally
- She is happy
- I am happy
- In over 18 months with my current girlfriend we've had about 2 arguments

YAY!
 
Damnit Scary !!

You had me worried there, I saw the thread name and thought for a moment you had split with that absolute stunner you are with at the moment.

For an instant on the forum a million voices cried out in terror and then were silenced.
 
ScarySquirrel said:
Major thread bump. I was just searching for a thread a created a while ago (not there any more it seems) and came across this thread. Thought I'd post an update for a laugh.

- We broke up.
- She moved out.
- Post breakup 'stuff' happened a couple of times
- She started seeing someone else that I knew (she worked with him, but he started after I left)
- I started seeing someone
- She moved to Paris with him, we met up for a drink before she went and had a nice friendly chat
- We email occasionally
- She is happy
- I am happy
- In over 18 months with my current girlfriend we've had about 2 arguments

YAY!
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I just looked on your facebook and saw you were still with her. And I was about to post a load of abuse at you for dumping such a hot female.
I thought you we're an absolute mentalist!

Then I saw the date... :p
 
Thread twists.

I thought you'd split with your absolute belter of a gf.

Very pleased for you that this is not the case.
 
Best to get out while things are still reasonably good before the other just does something stupid and hurtful.

You never know where you might be 5 years down the line. Doesn't mean it the end for ever, just for now.

Least you've come out of it with some decent experiences and another good friend as opposed to being **** on and thinking you've just watsed 2 years of your life.
 
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