Its a lifestyle choice at the end of the day. I can sit in my livingroom, wife and kids, dolby5.1 on the sofa, playing games, chatting drinking a beer and being sociable. Or I can be a 43 geek, locked away in my spare room, headphones on, nose 4" from the monitor pretending the world doesn't exist, immersed in my fantasy universe and failing to interact with anyone else (and yes 5 years of EQ on a PC will do that to you).
I have done 10 years of MMOs on PCs, I have done 4 years running a very successful Counterstrike Server, on PCs and the only time I was ever worried about graphics was when my FPS started to drop. On CS it wasnt too much of an issue, as we capped the server framerate at 60FPS and anisotropic filtering and AA make sweet ***kall difference to how well you kill someone.
On EQ when they brought in the Bazaar everyones FPS dropped to about 1FPS. For many PC games, framerate not graphics quality is king.
If graphics are allegedly so important, why is the most successful PC based MMO ever still running on a graphics engine that is over 7 years old and was based upon an engine that is 10 years old ? Do you think that its 12 million subscribers really care that much about its graphics ?
Most successful video game franchise ever - Mario, never seen him in High Def.
Highest selling console to date - Wii selling 76 million units world wide, that thing isnt even High Def - shows how much graphics quality influences gamers. That number is paltry compared to DS sales 135million world wide and that thing has a 3" screen.
Most successful video game launch ever - Modern Warfare 2, PC sales contribution (at launch) estimated 3% it only ranked 5th in the UK PC games charts.
Which I think goes to show, PC gaming, is having relatively small influence on the overall gaming market these days. Game developers develop for consoles primarily, then port their code over to PC versions, except for the relatively niche MMO market. And yes even with 12 million subscribers, WoW is considered niche when you think that MW2 had 4.5 million players on its first day, 8 million in the first 5 days peaking to 25+ million in its first month.
Currently I am an XBox gamer, and I love my console and the way that it delivers gaming in a very easy way. If you asked me my favourite games of all time, I'd probably say BF2 (PC), Counterstrike 1.4 (PC), Everquest (PC), Baldurs Gate (PC) and best ever, Elite (BBC Model B / C64) not one console game in there. Why ?
PC gaming is an investment, in time and hardware. PC gamers tend to have a favourite game that they tweek and optimise their rigs for, then they play that game to death. PC gamers tend to have a relationship with their hardware that is personal - comfy keyboard, mouse that has the right DPi, headphones to get the optimal sound, monitor setup, desk or workstation that is laid out just so. It is all personal to you, playing on another PC gamers setup feels wierd and wrong.
Whereas console gaming is disposable and generic. Everyone pretty much uses the same controller, has the same console and games are ten a penny. Everyone plays the latest FPS until the next latest and greatest comes along and then your copy of COD16 or MW5 is consigned to a trade-in at CEX or Game for a newer shinier version of whatever.
PC gamers often go back to the same games servers (something we cannot do on consoles), they build communities and they have choice. Yes console gamers can play with their friends, but communities are transient and we have no real 'place' that we can adopt as our own.
So to answer the OPs question - I don't care, and I think if many other gamers are honest nor do they.
PC gaming is not about having better graphics, it is as I said at the beginning, a lifestyle choice. PC gamers are the petrol-heads of the gaming world, they are more obsesive by nature. Whereas the best a console gamer will ever be is an Audi driver - stylish and efficient, but you will change it every 4 years !!