Do people still find pornography exploitative?

hurfdurf said:
What an idiotic and assumptive post. I know plenty of girls who absolutely love being abused in some very deep and strange ways and you would never ever know if you had not met them in that context. Some of the most boring girls in day to day life can be the most adventurous in bed.
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I assume by abused he means things like severe choking, gagging, facial slapping etc.

I don't call that adventurous. I call that... deeply disturbed.
 
hurfdurf said:
Was a problem when the bulbs I was trying out melted the lampshade, other than that they have worked a treat.



What an idiotic and assumptive post. I know plenty of girls who absolutely love being abused in some very deep and strange ways and you would never ever know if you had not met them in that context. Some of the most boring girls in day to day life can be the most adventurous in bed.
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Not surprised.
 
CD32 said:
& we get yellow cards for not fully starring out swear words on a family friendly site?

Zefan as a mod you're not doing your job properly! Hmmmm. (If you don't mind me saying tongue in cheek :)
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We're trying to have a discussion about adult material. Not an adult discussion about adult material.

jp_bl_68 said:
What about people who are into BDSM?
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That's what I'm talking about. In my experience [and others I know] people who are heavily into that have many deep-seated issues stemming from childhood. Makes it hard to hold down a relationship with them.
 
Lysander said:
I wouldn't waste your time there. Any girl who likes being abused during sex is basically good for that and that alone.

Still, if that's all you want from her, then go for it!
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I honestly think that every guy should have at least one completely filthy girlfriend in their lifetime.

It gets a lot of stuff out of your system, and you know that you won't have to freak out a girl that you might want to marry by asking her to do that sort of stuff.... (and if you have kids, you really wouldn't want your missus kissing them goodnight after that sort of depravity).
 
hurfdurf said:
What an idiotic and assumptive post. I know plenty of girls who absolutely love being abused in some very deep and strange ways and you would never ever know if you had not met them in that context. Some of the most boring girls in day to day life can be the most adventurous in bed.
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Dear me, calm down a little bit. I know this is territory close to your heart but try to remain objective. I was actually talking from experience and no, I won't go into it. All our experiences are different. So what is your definition of someone being abused? Maybe we should straighten that out.
 
PianoBasher said:
I honestly think that every guy should have at least one completely filthy girlfriend in their lifetime.

It gets a lot of stuff out of your system, and you know that you won't have to freak out a girl that you might want to marry by asking her to do that sort of stuff.... (and if you have kids, you really wouldn't want your missus kissing them goodnight after that sort of depravity).
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Very true. Nice post.
 
Lysander said:
We're trying to have a discussion about adult material. Not an adult discussion about adult material.
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Where that may be perfectly fine, given the rules/guidelines, would you like a child to read this? Also, It doesn't "compute" that references to gay porn acts etc seems acceptable to print on here yet lesser offences would get you kicked out the front door?

As I said, just a passing observation which I can't get my head round. Not an argument, & certainly not offended by anything posted myself. Just something to consider as to what lines are being drawn & I couldn't personally care if ever post is full of all out war with sex/swear words. Bring it on fully or not at all.
 
Interesting thread this cheers for posting. I don't find it as 'exploitive' as perhaps I should do - I think part of the problem is the fact it is so easy to come by on the internet (pardon the pun :D)

I'm not sure how I'd feel if it was my son/daughter looking at it however.
 
Lysander said:
Dear me, calm down a little bit. I know this is territory close to your heart but try to remain objective. I was actually talking from experience and no, I won't go into it. All our experiences are different. So what is your definition of someone being abused? Maybe we should straighten that out.
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So based on your little experience with a handful of girls, "any" girl who is into being dommed involving more than your typical ann summers pretend handcuffs to the bed post, a blindfold and some light slapping is worthless for anything but that?

I have had women who have kids, who are I imagine in the high income tax bracket ask me to do some very depraved and questionable things, to the point where I have had to turn down or at least modify what has been requested to make it safe.

Your personal experience with a few girls does not a forgone judgement of all women every where make.
 
hurfdurf said:
So based on your little experience with a handful of girls, "any" girl who is into being dommed involving more than your typical ann summers pretend handcuffs to the bed post, a blindfold and some light slapping is worthless for anything but that?

I have had women who have kids, who are I imagine in the high income tax bracket ask me to do some very depraved and questionable things, to the point where I have had to turn down or at least modify what has been requested to make it safe.

Your personal experience with a few girls does not a forgone judgement of all women every where make.
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Are you a male escort?
 
Lysander said:
Dear me, calm down a little bit. I know this is territory close to your heart but try to remain objective. I was actually talking from experience and no, I won't go into it. All our experiences are different. So what is your definition of someone being abused? Maybe we should straighten that out.
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LOL.
 
hurfdurf said:
So based on your little experience with a handful of girls, "any" girl who is into being dommed involving more than your typical ann summers pretend handcuffs to the bed post, a blindfold and some light slapping is worthless for anything but that?

I have had women who have kids, who are I imagine in the high income tax bracket ask me to do some very depraved and questionable things, to the point where I have had to turn down or at least modify what has been requested to make it safe.

Your personal experience with a few girls does not a forgone judgement of all women every where make.
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numbers plz ;)
 
I'm not from any religious background, but I never found pr0n appealing. I even intentionally found a video-based web site just to see if I would like it now, and no, it still doesn't do anything for me. Not in my early internet days of 1998, and not now in 2011. If I want to see someone naked, it would have to be my own girlfriend really. I certainly don't see the attraction of seeing penetration, for they are the organs to perform sex itself. Attraction to me is the girl's face, hair, figure, make-up and their fashion sense.
 
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