Yes fair enough, but not everyone likes to be abused + what you offer is intentionally kinky? (sorry if I am wrong) and some of the people that turn up to services such as that would be the people that like to be abused (maybe I am wrong)
Do people still find pornography exploitative?
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Yes fair enough, but not everyone likes to be abused + what you offer is intentionally kinky? (sorry if I am wrong) and some of the people that turn up to services such as that would be the people that like to be abused (maybe I am wrong)
Of course, in my experience. What else do I have to base it on? [By the way, that was a rhetorical question. I have the feeling your armour's up.]
Of course it doesn't. Which is why I was asking for other opinions on the matter. I have never read or spoken to someone who said that girls who liked scat or being cut made great long-term girlfriends or wives but if you know differently that's great. I just have no frame of reference there.
After having read that thread, that's a funny reply
I honestly didn't know, but I could have guessed from the implications in this thread.
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You just haven't found the good stuff.
If you agree it doesn't, why post that "all" girls who are into being abused are worthless for anything else?!
I am just calling you out for judging a whole giant section of a gender based on your tiny experiences with a few of them. Some girls can keep the bed room completely separate to real life.
If there is one thing girls need to learn from porn, it's that men like a performance. Some amature porn is terrible because whilst the girls are hot, they almost look bored.
Fortuantly, most of the girls I've been with have been ace in that regard
Fortuantly, most of the girls I've been with have been ace in that regard
If you agree it doesn't, why post that "all" girls who are into being abused are worthless for anything else?!
The very fact that they came to you proves they can't hold down a relationship, doesn't it? You have never confirmed you're a male escort though. If you would that would make things less vague and we could dispense with the chess references.
What makes you think that only single people pay for sex?
Not at all, stop assuming things.
You implied that somebody paying for sex can't hold down a relationship and I understood the inferred meaning as them being single.
I could make a facetious comment about getting your back up over quoting you, but I'll leave it for now.
Porn is definitely more prevalent and accessible, we may be doing untold damage to our children's psyche by having such freely available content, only when we know what the damage is will we be able to deal with it as I cannot see a way of stopping it from occurring, we are long past the point of no return.
Totally agree.
Porn has most certainly distorted by views on what is and what isn't 'normal' or acceptable in the bedroom.
And I honestly seem surprised that the girls I meet aren't ***** who want to be degraded. I'm not sure why as it probably is totally unreasonable to make a mess on their face but it just seems like fun.
It's also led to experimentation and thoughts which wouldn't have even crossed my mind had the images and videos not been a few mouse-clicks away.
This is going OT a bit, isn't it
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Totally agree.
Porn has most certainly distorted by views on what is and what isn't 'normal' or acceptable in the bedroom.
And I honestly seem surprised that the girls I meet aren't ***** who want to be degraded. I'm not sure why as it probably is totally unreasonable to make a mess on their face but it just seems like fun.
It's also led to experimentation and thoughts which wouldn't have even crossed my mind had the images and videos not been a few mouse-clicks away.
This is going OT a bit, isn't it
it is, but it's so damn true.
glad someone said it anyway
It's certainly far more acceptable, especially amongst women now, I might add.
I'll say what mjt has already said, I've seen some pretty horrific things, girls in rough blatant and severe pain but unable to call it quits, choking, vomiting, forcing verging on rape and so on. You'd need to be mentally equipped and a bit of a nut to enjoy such things.
I'll say what mjt has already said, I've seen some pretty horrific things, girls in rough blatant and severe pain but unable to call it quits, choking, vomiting, forcing verging on rape and so on. You'd need to be mentally equipped and a bit of a nut to enjoy such things.
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This is a really interesting debate...a bit of a wonder for GD. 
It's fascinating what people think limits are, what's acceptable and what's not...a bit of slap and tickle is fine but put that 5' whip away...
There's a bit of a saying around anything approaching the realm of kink, that is that it's fine as long as it's:
Safe
Sane
Consensual
There are too many posts on here that I would like to comment on, I'd be multiquoting for a full page but I do find some of the seemingly ill informed posts a little worrying.
The person who thinks that anyone into bdsm must have deep seated issues from the past for instance. I'm sure there are some that have issues that they repeat but I don't know how you extrapolate that to many of them...how many people do you know who are into that and have shared their past horrors with you...1, 2, 3? What makes a representative sample?
Going back to the OP, I think the reaction to porn has certainly changed, if anything I think the availability and explosion of it will, rather than exploiting anyone will have pushed up standards, as if users don't like what they see they can move to another site (I have no source for this, it's speculation).
Whoever mentioned about the 1cup clip being passed round friends for a laugh was certainly right, it really has got into public consciousness, even being parodied on Family Guy.
It's fascinating what people think limits are, what's acceptable and what's not...a bit of slap and tickle is fine but put that 5' whip away...
There's a bit of a saying around anything approaching the realm of kink, that is that it's fine as long as it's:
Safe
Sane
Consensual
There are too many posts on here that I would like to comment on, I'd be multiquoting for a full page but I do find some of the seemingly ill informed posts a little worrying.
The person who thinks that anyone into bdsm must have deep seated issues from the past for instance. I'm sure there are some that have issues that they repeat but I don't know how you extrapolate that to many of them...how many people do you know who are into that and have shared their past horrors with you...1, 2, 3? What makes a representative sample?
Going back to the OP, I think the reaction to porn has certainly changed, if anything I think the availability and explosion of it will, rather than exploiting anyone will have pushed up standards, as if users don't like what they see they can move to another site (I have no source for this, it's speculation).
Whoever mentioned about the 1cup clip being passed round friends for a laugh was certainly right, it really has got into public consciousness, even being parodied on Family Guy.